i was in a relationship and it was going fairly well but then my boyfriend dumped me because it didn't feel right for him. We decided to leave it for a while, and decide what to do after a month. I was ok with that as i really do like the guy and was willing to wait if it meant, we could work things out but, then i spoke to one of his friends who told me that the reason he dumped me was not the reason he had told me. That infact he was embarassed of dating me, i was upset and angry and in the heat of the moment, text him saying that if he was embarassed of me, that we should leave it, forever. I really regret having said that now as i still want to be with him. I think i have missed my chance as now i dont get to see him very often and we are just growing further and further apart. I wish that i could let him know, but i think its too late and i never have an oppurtunity. I miss him so much.
2006-09-05 04:50:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK this is what you need to see. If you still like him ok? did you think he has changed his stupid ways of being embarassed? why do you want to go out with some guy that thinks that? hes a jerk and you need to see it. No girl needs to go out with a guy who is that downgradding to a person. I think you did a good job of texting that guy, I wouldnt regret it at all. There is a perfect guy out there for you, that will love you for you. dont go back with him
2006-09-05 04:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok... Let me start by saying that if he left u is for a reason. When people ask for a break its because they don't want to be together any more. Simple as that... I don't think u should regret what u did because that just lets him know how u feel. He seems to be better off with out u.. I mean.. don't u think if he really loved u he would of come back and tried to work things out with u??? ask ur self that ?'n and u'll see. I know it hurts and the pain will only go away with time, so right now and for the coming time u have to be strong. Never lower ur standards, and always respect ur self. If that boy can't see how much ur worth that he does not deserve to be with u. Keep ur head up gurl thinks will turn ur way.
2006-09-05 12:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to set a time so you and him can talk alone. Let him know how you feel. If he IS embarassed to date you, then I suggest that you move on to the next. You said the friend told you he broke up with you for a different reason? The friend could be lying. Talk to your ex and find out what's really going on before making a decision.
2006-09-05 11:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sudden meeting , a long loving kiss nd a covincing xplanation ought too settle it .......On the other hand if u do feel that he gets embarassed dating u , its time u get someone else ..
2006-09-05 11:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by Parjanya Roy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 question why do u wanna be with someone that was embrassed by you? if that is how he felt about u why take him back sure u might miss the company but i think u should try to find someone else let his SORRY A** ALONE!!!!!!!
2006-09-05 11:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to be with someone who thinks you are great and wants to show you off to everyone. If he was embarrased of being with you, then its his loss. Forget him, you deserve better.
2006-09-05 11:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by KAYE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant force someone to like you more than they are willing. sounds like its time to move on from him. read tips on dating and relationships that will help you more on this site
2006-09-05 11:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not too late, believe me its not, but this time have a stronger personality
2006-09-05 11:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by Red Dragon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you wanna be with someone who doesnt wanna be with you?? you deserve so much better than that!!!
2006-09-05 11:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by *His_Playgirl* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋