Family & Relationships - 5 September 2006

My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for three years now, I have gotten to know his family really well. I get along perfectly with his mom and sister, but his dad is an inconsiderate prick. I'm not exagerating! He treats his family like s***! He is extremely selfish and all he cares about is money. He has even said that he can't be happy without money! It makes me very upset by the way he treats his family. He also treats me the same way. The thing that upsets me the most is the way he treats his wife. She is the complete oposite of him- kind and generouse. She would do anything for anyone before she thinks of herself, and he walks all over her. She sticks up for herself sometimes, but sometimes I really feel the need to say something and stick up for her. Because of his lack of respect for everyone, his family and I never want to even be around him! Should I say something to him and give him a piece of my mind, or is it not my place to do so?

2006-09-05 11:31:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Yes, I am 20 and I am a virgin... still

Is it that I am just THAT unattractive, and will never get any?... no absolutely not. Im a fraternity guy, intelligent, in college, and I've had oppurtunities to make a move where I have either been too afraid, too drunk, or too damn naive to actually "go for it".

So this question pertains to all the guys who are in my situation, and hopefully some ladies can help. What needs to be done to change this? There is no simple answer as it's not that we have too high of standards, nor is it that we are unattractive. The very very few guys in my situation are here because we don't know what to do anymore. Speaking to a random girl who seems pretty is too weird for us, and we're too damn busy to go out there and meet new girls. So how exactly, do we build up the courage and find the right time to have sex for the first time? Do we tell the girl that we are a virgin or do we try to hide it? Suggestions and help please for us "Nice Guys"

2006-09-05 11:30:42 · 7 answers · asked by benh316 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 11:29:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well everytime that i see this guy and we r alone we always end up kissin but i dont like him i like some body else but we always end up kissin plez answer my question?

2006-09-05 11:29:29 · 8 answers · asked by serez 1 in Singles & Dating

Do your friends use you, or do you use your friends. Please tell me, for what and why, and what do you get from doing this, does it make you feel good ?

2006-09-05 11:28:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am so angry at the amount of damage + distress i have suffered because of the bullying, neglect, aggression my mother subjected me to as a child. i am grown up now but still in pain. i am anxious, lonely, no self-esteem etc etc. she says that it was not entirley her fault because my father abused her and she was depressed. i gotta understand that and move on. i dont feel i am ready to let her "get away with" what she did to me. am i being unreasonable?
she said she is sorry and has cried over it. i have had counselling etc, helped a bit

2006-09-05 11:28:22 · 34 answers · asked by jay Lo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-05 11:27:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 11:27:43 · 13 answers · asked by ketan.s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 11:27:19 · 6 answers · asked by scherlie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 11:27:05 · 12 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend, we are both really good friends. We hang out all the time and everyone think we are going out. I hate it! I gets on my nerves and I don't like him. We are strictly friends and THAT IS ALL. What should I do for people to leave me alone?

2006-09-05 11:27:04 · 3 answers · asked by Michelle 5 in Friends

be honest ;)

2006-09-05 11:26:52 · 6 answers · asked by RED 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 11:26:38 · 44 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a bf and we dont no were to go on a date!!

2006-09-05 11:26:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm living at home, in Austin TX, with my mother and am not happy with my current situation. I've known my girlfriend for about 5 years, but we didn't start dating until recently. I love her and I'm thinking she may be the One. Should I head out to LA and see if this thing has a shot of working or wait for her to graduate,in May, and then find a city we both can relocate to? I heard LA is expensive and I'm not sure what the job market is like out there. thanks

2006-09-05 11:26:24 · 6 answers · asked by malagan16 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-05 11:26:10 · 6 answers · asked by sogullablegurly 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-05 11:25:49 · 2 answers · asked by timsnyl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, i'm seeinng a guy who is 3yrs older than me, he is 22 and i'm 19. He bought a new phone and gave me his old one, a guy mate of mine was going through the phone he gave me and came across a picture of him and his ex having sex on a couch, but he and his ex couldnt have taken the picture because its taken from far away. He told me the sex with his ex was crap. He even got upset over it, but then i see this picture in his phone... he has only ever had one girlfriend which was his ex. What do you think should i worry about this ?! he is also extremely h.o.r.n.y most of the time... I dont want to break up with him but i don't wana get hurt either!!!!

2006-09-05 11:25:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am bad about telling people what other people think about them even if it is negative and saying whatever is on my mind. I am also bad about talking about my divorce and why we got divorced with my new boyfriend telling him all the bad things that had happened to me while in the relationship. Afterward I get really quiet and clam up and even start crying because I am thinking I am saying things that shouldn't be said that will either push people I love away or I am afraid that will hurt their feelings or make them upset with me. My boyfriend tells me he don't mind that I am so open with him about how things went with my ex husband or what my feelings are about whatever it is that is on my mind, but sometimes I feel I say way too much. How will I know if it is too much that I am saying? How does one stop being so truthful and sound too much like a sad sack or like they are always depressed or worried about what they are saying or doing?

2006-09-05 11:25:03 · 10 answers · asked by computergirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

At 17 i started seeing this older man, me not being mature enough to understand that in due time my feelings would change( mind you, i was entirely too young to be in a committed relationship) it lasted for about a year. I was really close to his family, me and his niece were really close friends and still are to this day. But after it ended I stopped coming around because it was too difficult to deal with him and still try to maintain a relationship with his family. A few of years after that, I began going around them again minus him. Shortly after coming around I was approached by his younger cousin who'd always liked me but never said anything. We began a friendship which quickly grew into something more, though we never ended up together, we still saw each other and had each others' back; up til recent years we have always maintained a decent relationship: some thing happened and we stopped talking, i heard he's been asking about me but I'm seeing some one...his cousin

2006-09-05 11:24:53 · 4 answers · asked by justeasin' 1 in Singles & Dating

I hav this one friend who dated this one really fat girl for about a month before he realized that he shouldnt. He asked for a polo shirt for his birthday and she gave him a shirt that says Make Me A Samwich. lol. He dumped her in a mean way and every time his name is mentioned, she begins to cry and run away. My buddy doesnt care at all, he could do so much better. lol. We laugh about it everyday, even though I know its really mean. funny right?

2006-09-05 11:24:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok there is this one boy in my class and i was in his class last year 2. last year my friend told me he liked me and i kinda knew it 2 cause he talked 2 me all the time. but now we don't talk much it is only the 2nd week of school and he still stares at me and we do have small conversations. do you think he likes me?

2006-09-05 11:23:56 · 16 answers · asked by jesso 2 in Singles & Dating

we wait two years or so until marriage? He hasn't proposed yet, but that really isn't nesecarry as I know I'm the one for him and he's the one for me. We are very happy and in love with each other. The time is not yet b/c Im still in school and he's too!! So what you think. Oh yeah and besides I really won't see him that much for like 1 1/2 , b/c he away for Pastor school...

2006-09-05 11:23:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been dating this girl for a month and we ran into some of my friends and I forgot to introduce her to them. should I apologise?

2006-09-05 11:23:28 · 11 answers · asked by Richie 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 11:22:59 · 23 answers · asked by afrothunder_229 2 in Friends

Im bout to go out to the movies with this girl i have yet to really meet. She said she wants me to pay and she will pay me back later. Should i pay for the movie ticket and refreshments or just the ticket or pay and have her pay me back.

2006-09-05 11:22:48 · 30 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm married with children, have been for 11 years. I've met another woman that I think I love. At a minimum, I have very strong feelings for her. The same goes for her. She's been married for several years as well.

We have never gotten physical (aside from a couple of hugs) but I can't help the way I feel about her.

I would never leave my family for another woman, I've made a commitment that I will not violate. At the same time, I can't just turn off my feelings/heart.

There is no answer to this problem. I suspect I'm more looking to tell somebody than anything else. I feel frustrated...

2006-09-05 11:22:02 · 12 answers · asked by confused 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-05 11:21:59 · 39 answers · asked by divinephistar 1 in Family

tips on makin out plz

2006-09-05 11:20:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 11:20:48 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating