Ok, i'm seeinng a guy who is 3yrs older than me, he is 22 and i'm 19. He bought a new phone and gave me his old one, a guy mate of mine was going through the phone he gave me and came across a picture of him and his ex having sex on a couch, but he and his ex couldnt have taken the picture because its taken from far away. He told me the sex with his ex was crap. He even got upset over it, but then i see this picture in his phone... he has only ever had one girlfriend which was his ex. What do you think should i worry about this ?! he is also extremely h.o.r.n.y most of the time... I dont want to break up with him but i don't wana get hurt either!!!!
2006-09-05 11:25:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is really sweet and not like other guys, thats why i thought at first he was only after one thing but, he is different!
2006-09-05 11:27:08 · update #1
Welli would just chill and not worry about that pic its an old phone and that was before you!! Most young guys stay horny and you should do your best to give him want he wants but also you need to get what you want out of it!! just lay low and not start a fight over an old phone and pics!! Good luck!!
2006-09-05 11:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by one_redneckmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy doesnt sound like a prince but he isnt necesarily a prick either. He may just not be very smart. On the one hand, he gave you a pick of him and his ex in an explict position... not too bright. On the other hand, he didnt move the pic to his new phone and then erase it from the old one.. ie, he did not hide it from you and apparently did not even remember it so it isnt like he is obsessed with the ex or even the image of her nude. Im sorry, but this is a bit of a toss up. Oh, and dont worry about him being horney.. its not him, its all 22 year olds.
2006-09-05 11:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by God of Fire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's always randy - He's 22, Pictures like that are nothing to worry about, Sometimes you just do thing's in the spur of the moment and don't expect anyone else to find evidence of those things -
He probably got angry because he was embarrassed, Either because you seen the picture, Your friend seen the picture, Or he was stupid enough to forget to get rid of it.
What would be your initial reaction if a female friend of your boyfriend found a naked picture of you and went and showed him? same thing reversed.
You can't spend a relationship worrying about whether or not you're going to get hurt, You probably will - We all do sometimes, Just enjoy being happy for now.
2006-09-05 11:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Move on. Do you want to find out later that he's got pics of you posted somewhere? Do you think the chick knew they were being photographed? You need better than a horny ---- trying to get into your pants all the time. He ISN'T different from the other guys. Find someone who is intellectually stimulating, rather than physically.
2006-09-05 11:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Strange question... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont break up with him that was the past as long as the picture wasnt taken when you guys started going out. So just erase it and let it go, and be happy with him.
2006-09-05 11:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by Happy Mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh how icky to come across that I wouldn't want to know about the past love life and certainly would not want a picture of it. Delete it and tell him you found it. Sounds like he already has forgotten that it is there
2006-09-05 11:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by maddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really care for it. But I personally preferre my apple I phone! It's great
2016-03-26 23:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to worry about stuff from his past. If you really want to be with this guy trust him and look to the present.
2006-09-05 11:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by Wicked Wytch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
him and his friends are obviously perverts if he had a picture of him having sex with his ex in it. um..... do what you feel you must do. you still like him but don't trust him fine just do what you think is right
2006-09-05 11:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by froggy_dimebag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm a little weird for sure but id be straight up with him and show him the picture , see what he says
2006-09-05 11:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by cherdwum4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋