i need some advice... please help!!!!!?

Question

At 17 i started seeing this older man, me not being mature enough to understand that in due time my feelings would change( mind you, i was entirely too young to be in a committed relationship) it lasted for about a year. I was really close to his family, me and his niece were really close friends and still are to this day. But after it ended I stopped coming around because it was too difficult to deal with him and still try to maintain a relationship with his family. A few of years after that, I began going around them again minus him. Shortly after coming around I was approached by his younger cousin who'd always liked me but never said anything. We began a friendship which quickly grew into something more, though we never ended up together, we still saw each other and had each others' back; up til recent years we have always maintained a decent relationship: some thing happened and we stopped talking, i heard he's been asking about me but I'm seeing some one...his cousin

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did i mention that this is yet another cousin?

Answer 1

the same on u did before?? if that is so, it depends which one u like better, but it is veryimportent that u dont hurt ANY feelings since u are so deeply involved with this family and they will shun you if you do

Answer 2

Drama, Drama, Drama. How old are you. This is one of those problems that only you can answer but if you are considering the other man it is not fair to the one you are seeing. How would you feel if the roles were reversed.

Answer 3

whats the hurt with talking to someone so what if your in a relationship your partner should understand reconnecting with old friends.

Answer 4

well if u say ur feelings changed for him then wats the problem let him know ur seeing his cousin.