2006-09-05 11:26:38 · 44 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-05 11:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how often and what their behaviour is like. My man goes to the strippers about once or twice a year, to get together with old friends and have a good night. I also know that my man is a respectable man that I don't have to worry about.
If my man went any more then that or made a habit of going on a regular basis, I would never allow it. I would feel jealous that my man is obsessing about these other women. Honestly I think men who make a habit of going on a regular basis, are pervs and creeps.
If it's only once in awhile and you can trust your guy with everything let him have a little fun.
2006-09-05 11:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by edge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the man. Honestly I would prefer my husband to not go. but he will Go every once in a while with his Buddy's' for a bachelor party or something along those lines. But the hole thing is trust. so he can go and get some titties put in his face as long as i trust him and its' not like a every night thing. this will happen maybe once in a year or two. So like i said i trust my husband and know that it's OK for him to go I know what his feelings about strippers. So for us it's not a big deal. although i must admit if this was a more happening thing i wouldn't be very happy about it at all.
2006-09-05 11:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a waste of time if it becomes a habitual thing. As for getting together with some buddies for a birthday-fine. However those men out there give those ladies a job so it's not all that bad I guess. I go now and then,
2006-09-05 11:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by kiwibean03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly... it doesn't bother me. I've been to a strip club before and even I had fun. It's also one thing when it's a once-in-a-while type of thing, as opposed to something a guy does everyday or many days out of the week. As long as it's looking, then I personally don't have a problem with it. When I went to one I was with my best friend and her boyfriend, and she was buying him lap dances. It was all in good fun.
2006-09-05 11:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see the big deal. IF a man finds it appealing hes gonna watch whether it be in the privacy of his own home (movies, internet or whatever). I would rather know if my man is going than for him to sneak around to go. The only thing I prefer is that they dont pay for a lap dance. If it were free, he could go for it......if it makes him happy. If he has to waste the money we both work hard for, then thats a problem.
2006-09-05 11:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by honeyinthelexus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tricky topic. honestly, it depends on you personal beliefs and morals, how much you like the guy, and how much you trust the guy. i have dated certain guys that i found myself HOPING they would go to a strip club, meet a dancer, and I would never have to hear from him again! lol But it depends on you and your relationship. I can't honestly come to a judgement, because I am not in the dancers place, so I cannot judge her or her work. I personally wouldn't like it if my boyfriend/husband went. I have been to a few, it can be fun with we are out together. But if he is frequenting them often, I would get a little upset.
2006-09-05 11:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by MSU 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a female but my wife doesn't seem to have a problem with it that much.
When my Bachelor party was totally messed up (thanks to the best man and his awesome planning powers......) My wife took me and 3 of her girlfriends to a strip bar to make up for the failed Bachelor party.
You are going to find some women who don't care, and more that do care.
2006-09-05 11:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny you should ask this question today. my friend just gave me free passes to a strip club. i was thinkin about taking my man because hes always asking me if we can go together. i really didnt see the problem but now that i think about it ,,,,im not too sure. i suppose if we were together there wouldnt be an issue.
2006-09-05 11:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my hubby wants to go to the strip club, that's fine. Just toss me a credit card and I'll go busy myself at the mall!
2006-09-05 11:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't bother me at all - it's just another bar. My husband can go if he wants. I've been to them with him, with male friends, and with female friends. Men like to look at women - it's human nature. It's really only a big deal if you make it into one.
2006-09-05 11:30:00 · answer #11 · answered by Bug's Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋