Im bout to go out to the movies with this girl i have yet to really meet. She said she wants me to pay and she will pay me back later. Should i pay for the movie ticket and refreshments or just the ticket or pay and have her pay me back.
2006-09-05 11:22:48 · 30 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She shouldn't have to pay you back! A guy ALWAYS pays for the first date! Food, drink, the whole shabang! It's just good old fashioned manners. Just to show her what you're all about. Open doors for her, and simply treat her like a lady and it should go great. Good luck!
2006-09-05 11:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K If she asked you to pay and she will pay you back that is whacked!!!!!!
Maybe she thinks that you are the kind of guy that won't pay and she is reassuring that you will pay, she really isn't going to pay you back. Come on you really think! NO!
Just be a gentleman and let her know not to worry that everything is on you, but you have to be careful she is not using you just for the free-bies. Be alert at how she acts and if she is interested then she will talk to you after the movies and make the attempt to pay back, which I doubted
2006-09-05 18:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gentleman should always pay if he invites someone on a date,make a good impression whether you like the person or not,so you get go feed back to others,for a future date with some else!
2006-09-05 18:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by jose_valle76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will pay you back later she said? And you haven't even met her yet? Hmm....I guess she is used to paying for her way on dates. I would pay for her movie and what ever else she wants and then just wait for her to pay you back, as this is what she seems to want to do. If she doesn't pay you back then you have learned something about her.
2006-09-05 18:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a mans job to pay on the first date and then the the second let the girl pay. Havent you read the pamlet that they gave you in 5th grade?
2006-09-05 18:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by Santa's Personal Shopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if you asked her out, you should pay for the date. I believe girls should pay sometimes as well. It's just a nice gesture for the guy to pay on the first date.
2006-09-05 18:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should pay all the time and never expect a girl to pay you back because she shouldn't have to.
2006-09-05 18:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not too much of a financial burden, just pay for the entire date. Hopefully she'll pay for the 2nd date if there is one and it'll even out.
2006-09-05 18:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by fangstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude ...it depends if you want to be a gentleman or not.
You should pay if you do not like her you do not have to go out with her again.
You should never accept money from a woman...if she left it on the nightstand well that's a different story
2006-09-05 18:26:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a second date I would suggest you pay without asking her to pay you back.
2006-09-05 18:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by sheose711 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋