Hi everybody. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 and a half years. In the beginning of our relationship he made a boundary which he had stated first. I merely agreed with him.
The statement was, in his own words, "I consider looking at porn, fantasizing about other women and going to strip clubs cheating on my partner and would never do that." I agreed with him and was happy I found someone with the same thoughtput as myself. We were in a long distance relationship for a year and a half and then moved in together. I found out 2 months ago that he had been looking at porn the whole year and a half of our relationship to, as he says, help him 'get off.' He swore to me he wouldn't do it again and gave the excuse "well I didn't know when I would see you blahblah." A week ago I found that he got up in the morning went straight to his computer and went to a porn site, again, but immediatly closed it. He said he thinks he has a problem. I'm at a loss of what to do. I feel betrayed.
2006-09-04
09:07:50
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