I have a boyfriend who lives in a different state. I dont talk to him or see him much. I dont know if i should stay with him. HELP!
2006-09-04 08:57:47 · 6 answers · asked by Zam 14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably not - long distance relationships are very difficult, although sometimes they do work. A few considerations:
1) How old are you? If you're a teen then it is probably best to move on and find someone closer. If you're working at a good job and can afford to visit the person often, then it has a better chance.
2) How well do you know this boyfriend? If he's somebody you had a summer romance with for a couple of weeks, then it's probably not worth trying to keep it going. If you dated for three years and then one of you moved, it might be worth staying in touch.
3) How does he feel about it? If he isn't acting very interested, then move on and find somebody you can actually spend time with.
From the fact that you ask this question, I suspect it's really over. If you were happy with the way it was going, you would not have asked. Good luck!
2006-09-04 09:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no . u dont talk to him or see him is that really a boyfriend? he probably forgot that he even has a girlfriend in a different state. and if u still consider this a relationship then im 100% sure without a doubt u have been cheated on a lot throughout ur long distance so called "relationship"
2006-09-04 09:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depend on how close between you and him and your heart. I say you can be with him for sometimes to see how the relationships will go and then decide. If it's good and things work out, then yes be with him; otherwise, don't because you're just wasting your times with someone you don't love. Or if you mean to live in the state with him, then don't because you don't know if you're truly want to stay with him, if your question means this. Think carefully.
2006-09-04 09:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by themysterious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't talk to him or see him much, then it doesn't matter if you are with him or not. If you want it to matter, you should start talking to him or arrange to see him. That way you can figure out if you still need him as your boyfriend.
2006-09-04 09:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long-distance has never been a fan of me, I'd say find someone more local and avialable.
2006-09-04 12:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by kaloptic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there before. Let him go....Will be tough for a few weeks....its worth it.
2006-09-04 08:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by mikeyob_77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋