I am in love with my best friend. I have known her for 2 years. She has had a new bf for about 2 weeks now and I thought they couldnt get enough of each other, but they dont even hang out in school, so either they have broken up or it isnt as serious as I thought. Anyway, on Wednesday I will be alone with her for a few hours (painting a mural, lol) What should I do? How should I act? And should I make a move? Also, on the off chance that her friend is also helping how should I act differently? Thanks for any answers, all replies are welcomed.
2006-09-04 09:01:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing to do is to talk to her ... its tough when you fall in love with a best friend especially when you don't know if they share the same feelings. Honesty is always the best answer, and seriously have a heart to heart with her. Never play the what if game ..
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-04 09:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u stay friggin calm son and if i freak u out too bad u pee ur pants but anyway just act calm and cool if u flip out its game over just paint ur mural? and then tell her dude tell her u r in love with her and ask her out works every time unless she says no or she has a boyfriend... u have nothing to lose tho trust me she'll still think as u as a friend by the way don't touch her she'll get freaked out and call 911 depending on the age
2006-09-04 16:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't make a move unless if you're sure that they have broken up otherwise that might piss her off. casually ask how are you and your b/f are doing if she doesn't mention anything. if she's acting sad or different, you can infer she broke up with him, but ask anyway and if she says yes they broke up, act all sweet and nice, very caring and listen. let her rant to you. don't make a move for at least a day if she's upset. if she didn't care and she's single, i'd say it's safe to make a move. if her b/f or ex b/f is there, ask him casually how are things going with ____(her name) and you could find out from him if they're an item or not. hope this helps.
2006-09-04 16:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Caitlin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um start out slowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww since its shaky friendship ground and just tell her you think she is great and beautiful....and how could any guy be as dumb as that guy and let her go!!! also compliemnt her artistic talents on the mural painting.basically being kind an flirting.without actually saying you like her........ if you say those things she will know!!! so let her make a move next if she WANTS to. :) she will probably smile n blush and thank you for your comments;) then she will go home and turn them over in her mind and think of you................... even give her a couple days space after that! then she how she is
2006-09-04 16:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by safarlsun33 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
best friends know eachother better than anyone. I think if you make a move you will not regret it because what you both share is not what she will get from anyone else. Best friends should always get hooked up in the end. you both would live a happy life. let her know how you feel and let it come from your heart. Hope it works out.
2006-09-04 16:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by black hood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok lets see. get her flowers when u pick her up or when u see her. tell her i want to go out with u and not as a friend . u have been my bf and now i want u to be the only girl. i love u and will love u till i die. and see what she says. best of luck
2006-09-04 16:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is short! if you like, love or miss someone you got to let them know! so i say make a move and if her friend ends up helping maybe you could try to get some info from her about the girl you like. then try to get a moment alone to make you're move!
2006-09-04 16:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by bootyginger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK... as your...doin what your doin on Wednesday, take the plunge. it doesn't matter if the other friend is there or not, as long as she is there and not with him. just make sure that you don't try to offend to other guy. just gotta say," (insert name here)... i know this is kinda out of the blue, but what are you doing (insert day here)? i thought we could (insert activity here)... if she says yes, your golden. if she pauses... somethings in the way and you gotta figure it out... and fast. that's it!
2006-09-04 16:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by Sandman23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a painting on a canvas and say "i think im in love with you" or somthing romantic that is short and sweet and to the point.
2006-09-04 16:05:51 · answer #9 · answered by person 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best thing u can do is talk to her make her laugh......get physical around her touch her arm or something....jus act the way u do....u should be the first one to make a move caus she may not no that u like her so its better u make the first move...well i hope that helped....good luck
2006-09-04 16:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by lil'mama 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋