Family & Relationships - 2 September 2006

ok, this is embarassing but i'm asking this anyway. my husband and i recently got married (about 2 months ago) and were both virgins before marriage. i'm still having a hard time during sex - as in, it hurts when he penetrates me. its painful enough that i don't let him go in all the way (or maybe he's not in the right place? i don't know, it sounds stupid, right?). we've tried lubrication and foreplay, etc. i don't think he bought KY, is there any lubrication you prefer over another?

does it take a while for a woman to get "loose" down there? its fine for my hubby (ie he orgasms just fine)- i just can't seem to get aroused enough because of the pain. i can't even try being on top - there's no way he could penetrate me that way - it hurts.

also, is it really true that some women don't have an orgasm during penetrative sex - they need to be stimulated manually (ie. fingering)? just curious b/c that's what's happening to me.

2006-09-02 08:08:18 · 25 answers · asked by Gumnaam1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-02 08:07:05 · 10 answers · asked by superman 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I don't have a problem with getting guys to look at me but i do have a problem getting them to ask me out b/c they say that I look like I'm too picky in other words too hard to get..????????Wtf? I'm confused ........and there is this guiy that I like and I think he feels that way...??????

2006-09-02 08:06:37 · 12 answers · asked by :Just Me: 2 in Singles & Dating

I've liked this girl at school for a while and have told her I liked her.She said she didnt like me now but says things would probably change.I was just wondering if any one has any advice on how I could move things along

2006-09-02 08:05:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 08:05:42 · 16 answers · asked by Babigurl82 1 in Singles & Dating

who my husband took with him back to northern california we had a verbal agreement that he would return my son to me in 2 weeks it has been 4 weeks i have no information as to his whereabouts address or phone number what should i do???

2006-09-02 08:05:04 · 3 answers · asked by christine d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

contact

2006-09-02 08:03:05 · 2 answers · asked by Rasty 1 in Friends

Why is my gal so bothered about xfactor,why cant she watch it tommorow and get my tea made?

2006-09-02 08:02:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-02 08:02:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i want it to symbolize the love and commitment to my wife as well as the mistakes that have jepodized our marrige and my commitment not to make these mistakes again

2006-09-02 08:02:24 · 12 answers · asked by mongo862001 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-02 08:00:25 · 11 answers · asked by it makes me smile :] 2 in Family

i like him... and i am sure he is into me too... but here is the problem..... he texted me yesterday to tell that he had something he wanted to talk to me about... so i texted him back and asked what it was... and he said that he is not compfortable making all of the physical moves in our relationships.. so i said that was fine that i dont mind making them too.. but that i was just trying to figure out where this whole thing is going... so he hits me back and says that it depends on how much time i can spend with him and if he has to do all the WORK.... but i work.... 25 or more hours a week.. i go to school full time.. 15 units... and i live with my parents.. so i dont have a ton of free time... i told him all that and he still has not responded.... i dont know what to do....

2006-09-02 07:59:09 · 8 answers · asked by *CYN* 2 in Singles & Dating

Beautiful women who are always stupid and money-grubbing but
i'm also attracted to smart women who don't look good?

How do I choose? Why isn't there a smart girl who isn't fat and ugly? Why isn't there a beautiful girl who is smart? I have not found one girl that fits both and I've been to bars, dating sites, dating meets, the park, work...

2006-09-02 07:57:11 · 10 answers · asked by winger44 1 in Singles & Dating

CALL HIM EVERY DAY WANT TO BE WITH HIM ALL THE TIME OF THE DAY

2006-09-02 07:56:52 · 15 answers · asked by SHASON 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it rude to use ur cell phone when going on a date?

Oh, yea, and are there any places you can get TRULY free ringtones, without membership or paying or anything?

2006-09-02 07:55:29 · 11 answers · asked by ashleythequestionasker 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 07:54:51 · 26 answers · asked by loopy lass 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to know because I am heading to the dog park later today.

2006-09-02 07:54:49 · 18 answers · asked by BadAdvice 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 07:53:47 · 31 answers · asked by smalin a 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you egt a m8 2 like you and to ask you out???

2006-09-02 07:53:08 · 11 answers · asked by x <3 Laurz <3 x 2 in Singles & Dating

He leaves for work at 4:30am. So he's legitimitely tired, but this lack of attention and lack of sex is killing me.

2006-09-02 07:52:49 · 13 answers · asked by justcurious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 51 years old and have been alone all my life. I have been painfully shy around women all my life which has limited my social life. I feel that at this age my life is basically over and I will probably die alone. I just wish there was still something out there for me. Someone for me. I truly want to hold on to hope but I feel it is slipping away each day.

2006-09-02 07:51:30 · 10 answers · asked by phil 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 07:50:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do i get over it I know why it's because alot of boys like me and he got jealous and he thought i cheated on him is that a good reason to brake up come on i wasn't cheating on him?

2006-09-02 07:49:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am attracted to gay black men. I cannot find any places close to staten island, ny. i have tried the internet.

2006-09-02 07:49:25 · 9 answers · asked by james s 1 in Friends

I wonder if I could meet this woman one day, I feel a little shy in the moment. She is very "beautiful", both inside and out. I would like to meet her in person. What do you think?

2006-09-02 07:49:13 · 14 answers · asked by christopher l 1 in Singles & Dating

If a woman is gettin spousal support can that be taken away if she get a live in boyfriend?

2006-09-02 07:48:48 · 8 answers · asked by openminded 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Not bodybuilder,but bigger that most. what do woman think when they see this type of guy in a bar?

2006-09-02 07:47:24 · 14 answers · asked by Craigie84 1 in Singles & Dating

harrassing and threatening harm how can I block this number?

2006-09-02 07:46:52 · 23 answers · asked by Chris 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really want to get her something special, but i don't have alot of money. CAN ANY ONE HELP!!!

2006-09-02 07:46:28 · 9 answers · asked by what? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in my 40's, Divorced, And in graphic arts

2006-09-02 07:46:25 · 5 answers · asked by sunkissed 6 in Singles & Dating