i like him... and i am sure he is into me too... but here is the problem..... he texted me yesterday to tell that he had something he wanted to talk to me about... so i texted him back and asked what it was... and he said that he is not compfortable making all of the physical moves in our relationships.. so i said that was fine that i dont mind making them too.. but that i was just trying to figure out where this whole thing is going... so he hits me back and says that it depends on how much time i can spend with him and if he has to do all the WORK.... but i work.... 25 or more hours a week.. i go to school full time.. 15 units... and i live with my parents.. so i dont have a ton of free time... i told him all that and he still has not responded.... i dont know what to do....
2006-09-02 07:59:09 · 8 answers · asked by *CYN* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know EXACLTY what you're going thru. My bf said the same thing to me, simply becoz he was 28 and settled, while I was 18 and trying to do college, work, move out....
My advice, if he doesnt respond, then dont, either. He doesnt deserve you. Find someone at college, work, someone who can realte to everything you're doing. OR, enjoy being newly single, and not tied down, like ME! ;-)
2006-09-02 08:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by ashleythequestionasker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he wants someone to seriously Work him, like, really Bad. You are a school girl and working full time, you should find quality time elsewhere. This guy has not responded, maybe because he wants you for one reason...do you really have time for this nonsense? Peace, gurly!
2006-09-02 15:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Golden Scepter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope he is not looking for his way out of your relationship cause if both of you likes each other so much things can be worked out and everything should be understood no ifs and buts
2006-09-02 15:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the time you two DO have together count! "Quality time" doesn't watch the clock, and if you're up front with your boyfriend, he'll respect your time crunch and you two can come up with creative ways to meet and things to do!
2006-09-02 15:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by ensign183 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have alot on your plate, why not just concentrate on school!!!! You relationship will come in due time!!!
2006-09-02 15:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by NIKKI K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait another day and see if he responds. If not, call him. If he's still a prick he's not worth your time.
2006-09-02 15:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him in person...make a chart of everything
2006-09-02 15:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by xenoith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
2006-09-02 15:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by carlosofia2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋