I've liked this girl at school for a while and have told her I liked her.She said she didnt like me now but says things would probably change.I was just wondering if any one has any advice on how I could move things along
2006-09-02 08:05:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she didnt like you in the begining she probably never will. Dont waste any time on this girl. Get one who thinks you are amazing from the outset.
2006-09-02 08:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what my mom told me. If she knows you like her and she's playing hard to get...start ignoring her. Not completely though, if she says hi say hi back but stop any eye contact or lengthy conversations or any kind of attention you may give her that she might expect from you when she's around. She'll wonder what's going on and why you stopped persuing her. She's actually start persuing you and start the conversations and will acknowledge you first when she see's you. If that doesn't work then she wasn't really interested in you and only told you that because she didn't want to hurt your feelings. But try it. Believe me it works like a charm. Good Luck
2006-09-02 15:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she has good or bad intention.
Good intention: Don't want to hurt your feeling. Don't mind to be friend with you at this moment. Maybe when she get to know you longer, she may find something from you interested her.
Bad intention: She knows you like her. She knows you will treat her good and she is bored now. There is always good to have someone take care you FOR FREE. Don't mind that you stick around. When she is bored, she can call you up and fill in her empty time.
2006-09-02 15:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by City hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by leaving her alone - is your only chance. she is most likely being kind by saying things may prob change - or hedging her bets cos there is someone she likes better. Your only chance is to be around but absolutely no pressure and less contact than you have with her now - it may make her start thinking about you more, wondering why you arent fussing around her etc. Sort of reverse psychology. It sometimes works.
2006-09-02 15:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, don't chase her like a dog in heat. It would only make you look like an idiot. If she does not like you now, she probably want later. There is a lot more fish in the water. Get out there and start catching!!
2006-09-02 16:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by mclamb63 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt bother with her personally. Remember that I am just going by what you have mentioned in your question!!!!
I can see that you really like this girl... and will probably find it hard to get her off your mind, but be patient!!!
I have noticed some girls play hard to get... just for the attention, even if they dont like you. I am not saying she doesnt like you, but if she playing hard to get.... dont bother with her dude!!!!
Concentrate on other things... and try hard to keep away from her as possible. If she speaks to you, speak back, but dont socialise with her (if you did that is). Dont make this plainly obvious, but by keeping away from as much as you can... it will show that you have moved on from her!
She may try hard to speak to you... which could be signs that she does like you, but thats a possibility.
Good luck dude!!
2006-09-02 15:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she blatantly told you she did not like you then that was a bit hash.
I would suggest you give her a bit of space, in fact a lot of space, her views about you might change in your favour, but if not move on and find love somewhere else.
goodluck.
2006-09-02 15:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stare at her across the room. You will either find out wether she likes you if she doesn't start rumors about you being a "stalker type"
2006-09-02 15:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by Luke M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell a girl u like until after ur sure she may likeu too....like if she flirst with you...or always calls u, Ims u, etc... if u cant get over her....find another girl to drool over....or try flirting with one that could possibly like you
2006-09-02 15:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by LoLa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant. she'll make up her mind in her own sweet time. however i wouldn't waste my time with her - you know from the very start if you like someone or not.
i think she is politely giving you the brush off, sorry
2006-09-02 15:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by tjstarbe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋