We have tried everything. Now we are trying a separation. I just don't know what else to do. He is on drugs, and I have tried to be supportive(after all, it is a disease).
He is now crying about how he can and wants to change. Am I too mean by saying "you didn't cry when you put the joint up to your lips. You didn't cry when our last $100 for groceries went up in smoke. And you didn't cry like I did when I admitted we needed counseling. Now you are crying."?
I got a promotion at work, and soon after, my boss called me into the office and told me if there's anything I wanted to talk about to talk about it. He seen a decline in my personality and just wanted to give me some support groups that could help. Now that I have found a place, my personality changed, just knowing I am going to get out of this mess. I wanted to help him, I tried to help. Who else put 110% into their marriage and it still failed? In the end, I know I am a winner for getting through this.
2006-09-02
08:12:57
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