If your boyfriend or husband is talking to another woman online, keeping it a secret from you, asking for her picture, telling her how sexy she looks, asking for her phone number, would you believe him if he tells you when you catch him that he only wanted to talk to her on the phone to tell her that he is with somebody else?
2006-09-02 08:15:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would not believe him, because he's going through the trouble of hiding this from you and complimenting her in the process. He is trying to play his woman(you) for a fool when he says" he wants to tell this woman he is with someone else" shouldn't he just leave her alone in the first place, so he wouldn't go through the "trouble" of telling her he's involved in the second place? Some dudes are stupid.
2006-09-02 08:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really have to ask? Of course its cheating.I mean why would he even ask for her phone number and pic if he wasn't interested in her on a more that "chat buddy" level.As for the telling her he's with somebody else he has to call?He can't just type it up but must say it to her?Personally if i were you I would ask your husband to give you the girl's phone number so that you can also tell her that he's married and see how he reacts to that.
2006-09-02 08:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Nexus K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, to me, that's cheating. When you take it beyond the site and into your personal life, that's cheating. He could tell her online that he's with someone. Why hasn't he told her that before? I have a friend online that I've never considered flirting with...he's a married man and I love him and his wife to death...they have become like family to me, but he's always been up front about his wife and kids and never tried to flirt with me...he's the prime example of the proper way to chat online. He never hides me and never asks me not to say anything we've chatted about. And no, no crushes...just glad someone is faithful these days~
2006-09-02 08:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what he is chatting about. If it is causing you distress, and you are spending emotional angry over it and interfering with you daily lives, it is cheating. His first obligation is to you if he disagrees with that then tell him to make a choice.
Just be ready for the answer.
Good Luck
2006-09-02 08:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by fred f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes cheating! The fact that hes keeping another woman from you makes it really wrong!
2006-09-02 08:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by Gloria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you were doing the same thing would you take all that time and all those compliments just to tell them your with someone.No way hes looking so do what you will but obviously hes looking to cheat.
2006-09-02 08:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by ladypet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating! If he's even remotely into another chick other than his gf and is looking around for someone else to bone then dump his sorry *** girl! You diserve much better than that.
2006-09-02 08:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by aluminum22rocker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say its cheating, or planing to. He is asking a girl for privat information and thats not what he should do. If he wants to see a pretty girl he can look at the one he has...(for now)
2006-09-02 08:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gotta agree with most girls here, a situation like that I would consider as cheating - cuz I dont think he would tease and chat with that girl like that just to call her and tell her, hey listen I got a gf.
2006-09-02 08:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by my_oh_my 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha! That's a lie if I've ever heard one! Oh goodness. This guy needs his a$$ kickeD!
2006-09-02 08:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋