we have twin female children aged 1.5 years,But both i and my wife left them with our parents to continue our education.we usually meet the children every month and stay with them for two days.I am really concerned about it but dont have much choice.My fear is will they become psychologically affected?shall we try some other way to raise them.Advice please
2006-09-02 08:27:21 · 4 answers · asked by venkatesh m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are trying to better yourself so you can provide a better life for your children then no. They are better off with the grandparents , than to be raised in a daycare. If possible you do need to try to spend more time with them. Its times like these when families pull together to help. You must have very good family so be proud. .....Best of Luck
2006-09-02 08:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by noname 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is wrong on so many levels, I pity your children. I have absolutely no advice for someone like you, other than you've already fu**ed up beyond any and all redemption. At least you two will have your stupid degrees, and I hope the sacrifice of your children was worth it. Rot in hell, the both of you.
2006-09-02 08:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by surfinthedesert 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you are out to better yourselfs in order to be better providers for your children then no you are doing what is best for the children; as long as the people you are leaving them with are stable and loving and when you and your wife do see them it is 100% good quality time dedicated soley to them I dont see a problem with it.
I would ignore the harsh answers you received. I mean we have enough poeple depending on the state and welfare to support themselves and their families. I applaud you and your wife for trying to better yourselves instead looking for a hand out!!!!!
2006-09-02 08:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kalli 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know this sounds harsh, but postpone your education and take care of your children. They'll probably be psychologically affected since you're never around. They are YOUR CHILDREN!! Don't leave them! Sheesh....I know I sound harsh, but you know what, take care of your children, it's not your parents responsibility to take care of them 24//7 it's YOURS....Please, seriously, reconsider your priorities.
YOU will by psychologically affected too in the sense that you won't know how to take care of them if you're never around!
2006-09-02 08:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kiara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋