He believes that she will suicide if he does leave. I believe she trapped him into marriage by falling pregnant when she was16 and he was19. He has stayed out of responsibility He feels that if he leaves her he will be throwing her away like a dirty rag...his words. She wants him to love her, but he cant.He believes he has never really loved her. After the birth of their 3rd child practically all intimacy stopped. He worked and slept and she kept house. They have never been able to communicate with each other about his feelings, its always about her feelings- his feelings dont count. He had an affair with another woman, she found out, and then blamed him even though she had no interest in intimacy with him for 30 years. She begged him to stay but has been making his life miserable ever since. No one knows why he is still there, they have seen how she has treated him like a doormat. This is all that he has known since he was 19, but is very unhappy and doesnt know what to do.
2006-08-27
08:22:32
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