yea! i had a very bad past my future dosnt look bright!
2006-08-27 08:15:33 · 32 answers · asked by the 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have the power to change everything in your life. You just need guidance from God.
2006-08-27 08:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to give more details, dear. What is it about your past, and why are you so discouraged about your future? You need to ask yourself these questions, and try to figure out what you can do to change the conditions that are making you so unhappy. You sound as though you're in some kind of a rut. Get out and do things that are fun. Make new friends, join clubs, get a hobby you enjoy. Stay away from negative people and situations. We are all masters of our fate. We can only be as happy as we allow ourselves to be, and likewise, we can choose to wallow in self-pity. You can make the right choices if you really want to. I hope that you will. And like I said, I could be more specific if I knew exactly what was bothering you. But with such little information, I can only generalize. Forget the past and make the future what you'd like it to be. You have that power in you. Use it! Good luck, dear!
2006-08-27 08:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up with my grandma cause both parents werent around. I live on the edge of a trailer park in a s.hitty town. Last year my grandpa, grandma, brother, and friend all died. I lost 2 jobs. But guess what? I still love life and cant wait to see what the future holds. Some things I can change, some things I cant. If you stop to think of all the beautiful things in this world, its really hard to hate life. Like the rain or a sunny day or the ocean.
2006-08-27 08:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have all had bad experiences in our lives, some worse than others, but you cant let them determine your future or how you feel today. Learn from them, and let them go, and you'll be a stronger person for it in the end. Your past has no bearing on your future unless you let it! Think positive and push those negative thoughts out of your head and move on to better things, you can do it!!!
2006-08-27 08:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when I lived with my mom when I was a kid, my life was horrible too. But now that I live with my sister and her family things have really changed around, my life's great now. Maybe you should get out the situation that you are in now. Find another family member to stay with. Just because your past was bad doesn't mean your future will be, as long as you try to make your life better, it will get better. Don't do anything to harm yourself. Just try to make your life better. Good Luck!
2006-08-27 08:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key word is HAD, life is what you make it, do you have an education, a job, a family. There is no harm in asking for help from family or social services. You DO have to want to make a change. If you have HAD such a bad past then it can only get better.
2006-08-27 08:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by lobo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then at first make love with ur life, having a bad past doesn't mean dark future, forget ur past just like a nightmare & start a new morn.
2006-08-27 08:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by Fahim . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently had a very bad year last year in my Junior Year of highschool. My plan of action? I'm moving to a new school so I can start over and set everything right once again. So what am i trying to say? Get rid of everything that reminds you of the past so you can start over. I've gotten rid of my friends and everything as I'm gunna be in a different city in a diff. school GoOD lUck
2006-08-27 08:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by JO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like your life change it! Don't live in the past if it was that bad. Think about how you can change your future. (i.e. Move, get a different job, meet new people, do things differently.) Life is what you make of it.
2006-08-27 08:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the past is in the past. Its time to stop thinking about what u did, but what ur going to do to make it better. Just think positive and remind yourself of all the good things you have going for u. And before you say i have nothing good, just think ur past is gone and u dont have to think about it anymore
2006-08-27 08:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by renegade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to give up just yet. Think about what your leaving behind...
-Your first step
-Your first Ice-Cream
-Your first birthday party
-Your first ride to the mall
-Your first best friend
and all your first's... think about what people would be doing without you, imagine.. your parents, just crying over your dead body... and everytime something would remind them of you, they'd cry. How sad is that?
Think about what I've said, and you'll realize that by saying "I HATE MY LIFE!" its hurting many people...
Please, make a wise descision
2006-08-27 08:25:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋