My ex boyfriend told me he is not over me but I gave him all of my time and love when we were together initialy. He doesn't want sex that much, doesn't want to see me that often, is easily agitated when I suggest I need more time. I don't have any other options rigt now and I always feel lonely. Would taking him back be using him or would it be letting him use me? We've broken up now about 5 times and we go for days/weeks without talking to eachother.
2006-08-27 08:14:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are young, move on. Concentrate on other things that matter more and make you happy - friends, family, career, education...even shopping. If you really love him try to make it work but don't force it. Why would you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you. That phrase right there helped me gain selfesteem and selfconfidence and also helped me through a difficult time. I am worth someone desiring me and being their fantasy and so are you.
2006-08-27 08:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obviously not going anywhere, it doesn't make you happy or meet your needs so why would you bother? How are you going to meet anyone new if you are spending your time with this guy? Just let it go and move on. If you find yourself lonely all the time if you don't have a guy hanging on you then you need to do some serious work on yourself, if you don't you will spend your entire life with one loser after the other just so you don't have to be alone. I can't think of any worse reason to be with someone.
2006-08-27 08:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it like this does he really love me? Is he really taking me seriously or does he even deserve my time and love? Did it ever really occur to you that your happiness comes first. Think about these questions for a minute. And I think you may be able to answer this question on your own.. Besides I think you already know you just have to admit it to yourself first. Good Luck.
2006-08-27 08:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is be really clear on what exactly you want from your relationship. If you feel that this guy isn't doing it for you move on. Sounds like you just need to reevaluate your situation and keep searching for the one you really should be with.
2006-08-27 08:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by jimsg718 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-08-27 08:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about him. Maybe you and him are just that couple that are supposed to go out but not have a steady relationship. My sister is like that with her x bf.
2006-08-27 08:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by Courty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This relationship is going nowhere and you answered your question yourself. Breaking up 5 times says it all.
2006-08-27 08:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still care about him, then, yea, I would. If not then don't. Find someone that makes you happy and has time for you. I had a similar relationship for a while, wasn't happy at all.
2006-08-27 08:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change is hard and it feels great when you're with him. But if it doesn't work and you can't compromise then it's time to move on...easier said than done.
2006-08-27 08:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by The Kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time to move on with your life and find a new man.
2006-08-27 08:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋