ok so theres this boy that ive known since like 6th grade and i used to like him in the 7th and 8th but once i started high school i was over him and i never thought of him than more than a friend and my friend told me he would talk to me if he got to know me and weve been talkin like friends and now i feel so much more for him my friends say im sprung but im like in deeeeeep likings not love but like I LIKE LIKE LIKE him so much. n people tell me he likes me too but i wana kno how he feels. and i dont wana sound stupid if i tell him how i feel and he doesnt feel the same way. like i wana kno how to kno if he likes me
2006-08-27 08:30:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you like him enough to be willing to feel stupid if he doesn't feel the same? If not, then move on....
Can you accept the fact that if neither one of you ever makes the first move, you'll never know of what might have been? If yes, then again, move on...
Good luck!
2006-08-27 08:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by late664 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think that he may feel the same way about you but, just like yourself, he is afraid to tell you how he really feels. One day when the two of you are together the truth Will come out whether it comes from you or him. Knowing how much you care for him and how much he probably cares for you it would be a shame if the two of you passed each other, like ships in the night. Don't worry, for true Love will find a way. So it's not necessary to try and force it--It will happen
2006-08-27 15:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are both exactly the same.i have exactly the same problem.everyone is gonna say"just tell him!" but it goes much deeper than that.we dont want him to think we are weird or not feel the same way.but the truth is,we will never know,unless we try.and its hard,but you will feel so much better once you get it off your chest.he may like you to.you cant go with what other people say,they might not know the truth.good luck hon,i hope it all works out ok.im 15,and he still doesnt know,ive like him since 4th grade
2006-08-27 15:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ashleigh(: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know we all have a fear of rejection about all kinds of things, and I feel you are not telling possibly for this reason. But you won't know until you let him know how you feel. And if he says he doesn't feel the same, then remember there are lots of guys out there. Take it easy on yourself if he doesn't say he feels the same....We all at some point have been in your shoes in our lifetime...it will hurt but there are other and better fishes in the sea....remember that!!! Good Luck!! :)
2006-08-27 15:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by no_doubt! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having been where you are a million times, I hope this helps. you're still in high school and even though it seems like the WORLD will end if you do something silly.....it doesn't.
Tell him, and if he doesn't feel the same, it wont kill you, I promise. If you can't even talk to him about this, then I doubt things can go any further anyway.
2006-08-27 15:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by jobie023 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well just tell him and if he doesn't feel the same go away and don't talk to him till you think you are ready. A;so be on a subject and just blurt it out not where everyone can hear you and just sit there and if he doesn't listen tell him again that means he may like you!
2006-08-27 15:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by ceg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow.... don't tell him how you feel. If you do, let him know that you are very fond of him. Nothing more. You may scare him away. Guys have a tendency to back off from girls who "lead" too much and "let all their feelings out right up front".
2006-08-27 15:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you just invite him over to watch a movie or for dinner and probably the attraction will be revealed if he is attracted do you. That would give you time to talk and perhaps he will ask you out.
2006-08-27 15:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him,take a risk.You won't know it if you don't try.Believe me,I was feeling the same as you..and I blew my chance..now I regret it.Tell him what you feel,be honest and you'll see how things will get better.Best wishes =)
2006-08-27 15:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by Felicity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out ...not on a date but just a kick it and see how the chemistry spark from there. you'll know when the time is right to tell him how u feel.
2006-08-27 15:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by mizs_sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋