Family & Relationships - 27 August 2006

She was trying to lose weight, (and she can't cook) so I offered to help her by prepping & prepacking all her meals, desserts, in advance (i did for 1 yr) She was ecstatic at first, but then she would throw it out & say "it was better last time," or "I can't eat your *****" So I stopped & now she says "you don't give a *** about me, "you selfish ****", where's my dinner", etc.
Her house hadn't been redone since 1970. I offered to paint all the rooms for her, do a lot of gardening, decorate, clean. Our real estate agent says the value has gone up by 25%. She says: "you took over my **** house", "who do you think you are", etc.

She points out (invisible) stratches, stains, to me (I've counted) 50 times a day. "What's this," "was this here before", etc.
She wanted to buy a car so I helped her going to dealers, etc. The minute we brought it home, she says "it's a piece of ****" (it's a bmw), why did you MAKE me buy that car, it hurts my back, i can't see out", it's your fault.

2006-08-27 12:43:24 · 40 answers · asked by katherine m 1 in Family

like I know the standard movies or going to the mall, but I want somethign else

2006-08-27 12:43:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

http://www.cnn.com/2006/LAW/03/22/jailed.millionaire.ap/index.html

PHILADELPHIA, Pennsylvania (AP) -- A millionaire jailed for more than a decade for contempt in his divorce case continues to block efforts to trace his missing assets and should remain jailed, a three-judge panel ruled.

H. Beatty Chadwick, 68, is believed to hold the record for time served in a U.S. civil contempt case.

He was jailed in 1995 for allegedly hiding $2.5 million in overseas banks during a bitter divorce. Since then, a series of judges have told him he could go free once he tells the court what happened to the money, but Chadwick hasn't budged, the judges said.

Chadwick, a former corporate lawyer, maintains he lost the money in an overseas investment. Experts say it would now be worth more than $8 million.

http://www.cnn.com/2006/LAW/03/22/jailed.millionaire.ap/index.html

PHILADELPHIA, Pennsylvania (AP) -- A millionaire jailed for more than a decade for contempt in his divorce case continues to block efforts to trace his missing assets and should remain jailed, a three-judge panel ruled.

H. Beatty Chadwick, 68, is believed to hold the record for time served in a U.S. civil contempt case.

He was jailed in 1995 for allegedly hiding $2.5 million in overseas banks during a bitter divorce. Since then, a series of judges have told him he could go free once he tells the court what happened to the money, but Chadwick hasn't budged, the judges said.

Chadwick, a former corporate lawyer, maintains he lost the money in an overseas investment. Experts say it would now be worth more than $8 million.

2006-08-27 12:42:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee left me a few months ago? It came totally out of the blue. I think thier was already someone else. I was pregnant at the time (he didn't know when he left) and ended up having a miscarriage. I have date since then and think I may have even found someone I might like to have a relationship with but the ex is always on my mind. I am now having to go to court againest him because he was still sleeping with me and I threatened to tell his new girlfriend about it so he punched me in the face. I still love him and miss him. What do I do? How do I get over him?

2006-08-27 12:42:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-27 12:42:01 · 12 answers · asked by Kit Katt 2 in Singles & Dating

ok.i like this boy.his my friend.we are in the same grade and same school okay,i ways see him..i really like this guy..people say that we should go out..and we look cute together..but i dont know wat to do next..

2006-08-27 12:41:45 · 8 answers · asked by mary 1 in Friends

My son is eleven and lived with me for most of his life but custody was given to his father who wasn't in his life for five years and the father and I don't get along so now I believe that he is using that against me and playing both sides I guess you could say he likes to add fuel to fire when it comes to what he tells me and what he tells his dad I just want to know if anyone has any suggestions on how to deal with this problem (please only serious answers)

2006-08-27 12:41:28 · 3 answers · asked by dnicebnice 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

plz tell me im there cousin and im going there to see them and i dont know where to find them at!!!

2006-08-27 12:41:20 · 5 answers · asked by heidi121772 1 in Family

he said that his friends were more important than me and that he didnt talk to me at all and i always have to start the conversions

2006-08-27 12:41:09 · 10 answers · asked by chan 2 in Singles & Dating

i am having a bad day! say anything(funny, nasty, wierd...random...anywaything) taht will make me smile please! the one who makes me smile the mose gets 10 points!

2006-08-27 12:41:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-27 12:40:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay here is a question for everyone. Why is it that white women appear to chase after black men? As a black woman who have dated nothing but black men all my life I fail to see what is so special about having a black man. (No offense brothas). I have a son is chased by white women constantly. Everytime we are together there is a white woman or spanish woman chasing after him. Even once he tells them that he does not date outside of his race and is not attracted to white, asian or spanish women they still chase after him. Wome who are not black, what do you see in a black man that makes you chase after them, even if they don't want you? What is it about black men that make you want them so bad? My son is a college grad on his way to grad school and has no kids, very handsome and a good catch. I personally want him to settle down but I don't care if it is a white woman or black. As long as they treat him right. He does not date outside his race and it seems to make other races angry. Y?

2006-08-27 12:40:33 · 14 answers · asked by Tonya 3 in Singles & Dating

Ladys would you move in with a man you didnt know but like the way he looked and his stability. Because your parents were giving you a automadum of get out by the age of 18 and you didnt have anywhere else to go.

2006-08-27 12:38:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ready to say it, and i told her i would say it when i felt the same way about her. Should i tell her i love you, or should i wait till the time is right when i'm ready.

2006-08-27 12:37:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u guyz like gurlz that shave or trim their privates....

2006-08-27 12:36:58 · 29 answers · asked by YourGirl08 3 in Singles & Dating

Who ?

Why ?

2006-08-27 12:35:42 · 38 answers · asked by twogood2betrue4you 2 in Family

Rediculous, isn't it!!!

2006-08-27 12:35:41 · 21 answers · asked by Coodles 5 in Friends

I have a big problem! Wherever I go, I seem to charm alot of boys. Even guys older than I am. And I like charming everyone, but the problem is that I am always flirting with all the guys. And I just can't stop flirting. It's not that I like them or something, but I have been flirting since like... the second grade! Can anyone help me.

2006-08-27 12:35:40 · 17 answers · asked by Casey Pearl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend and I broke up about a month ago. She has been seeing someone else. She has called me the entire time we have been apart. The other day she saw me talking to a girl we both work with (just a friend) and got mad. I told her that we were no longer together so It shouldnt matter who I talk to. She was so mean about everything to I told her I didnt want to talk to her anymore (even though I do still love her) and that she should loose my number. Tonight she sent me a text asking are you still piss ed. When I didnt answer she asked if I wasnt talking to her anymore. What is her problem? Why does she keep trying to pull me back in? Any advice on this situation would be appreciated. I should probably add that she is the one that broke up with me.

2006-08-27 12:35:08 · 16 answers · asked by arikinder 6 in Singles & Dating

i was searching yahoo personals and stumbled accross a friend that i havent seen for a long time and all i want to do is get her e-mail address but i dont want to have to sign up on yahoo personals to get it plz help

2006-08-27 12:35:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex boyfriend were together for 3 years in high school and then we broke up..We lost touch and he ended up getting a new girlfriend and they had a son...Now he wants me back 4 years later so we got back together..everything was fine until he started to have long conversations with his baby mother and he started to go over her house a lot. He always started to treat me different..she eventually moved in so me and him broke up..so three weeks later he calls me and say his baby mother only moved in for one day and that he see's that I'm his future wife because he loves me so much.. I am very jealous of the relationship he has with his baby mother... Should I take him back and trust that they have nothin going on? what is the proper way for a man to have a relationship with a baby mother and a girlfriend?...what should be accepted or not accepted?

2006-08-27 12:34:56 · 4 answers · asked by New New 1 in Friends

I read somewhere that the good thing about gossip is that it keeps people in line. Since I know that the family and all the neighbors will talk, I can't do anything too weird or harmful. What do you think of that idea?

2006-08-27 12:34:40 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have just come back from a weekend spent with my boyfriend. We spent a nice weekend but today we argued a little. I started to cry and he got really upset with me and told me that these kind of situations makes him hesitate to be sure about us. He told me that he thinks we need time apart. He reassured me he is not breaking up with me but he needs time to think about us, his life, his career plans. What do you think I should do? I wanted to find out from him today if he sees me in his future and he said that he feels like I am always pressuring to talk to me about us and he says our fights and my cries do not make him feel too convinced about us. When I was leaving today, he kissed me and said to me " see you ok?". He said he does not want anybody else, he just wants time on his own as he feels exhausted with everything.

2006-08-27 12:33:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when my wife is full of the booze she is very sarcastic, eg, we were in bed making love and i kissed her lips, neck, breasts, tummy, belly button then her knee's, she piped up " bet you wouldnt pass the pub "

2006-08-27 12:33:54 · 27 answers · asked by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, what is too much???

2006-08-27 12:33:37 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Shortie♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

how can I seat them at my wedding reception so that they don't have to interact with the other? We are not having separate tables, all of the tables are conneted so that they form a... U...I don't want to put one of them all the way at the end of the table.What should I do

2006-08-27 12:33:26 · 10 answers · asked by simply2priceless 1 in Weddings

2006-08-27 12:32:29 · 24 answers · asked by Bohemian 4 in Singles & Dating

acceptable???? fun???? what is the wildest place you have ever 'messed around'.. and i dont mean making out.... serious stuff...

2006-08-27 12:31:59 · 38 answers · asked by *CYN* 2 in Singles & Dating

i havent talked to my boyfriend for a whole week and he told me he was busy and hasnt had time

2006-08-27 12:31:41 · 8 answers · asked by K-Dubb 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am married 2 kids one of which is not biologically his but has seen him grown the child is now 5yo and we have a newborn of 10 months. We seem to hit heads so much and he has cheated but swears he is sorry. He doesnt spend time with the 5 yo nor I really we dont have much of a sex life he wants to but I cant.. Well I dont just want sex I need him to talk to and love and when all goes wrong I can find myself just spreading my legs for the hell of it. I feel as if divorce is the only option because we cant even talk he yells and takes no blame at all. I feel lost and alone I need to leave but he said I can't take our youngest.. I dont know what to do I am tired and too yound to be so unhappy I mean I love him but he doesnt understand me or my feelings. Is it me or what?

2006-08-27 12:30:11 · 10 answers · asked by tashafleming25 2 in Marriage & Divorce