Okay here is a question for everyone. Why is it that white women appear to chase after black men? As a black woman who have dated nothing but black men all my life I fail to see what is so special about having a black man. (No offense brothas). I have a son is chased by white women constantly. Everytime we are together there is a white woman or spanish woman chasing after him. Even once he tells them that he does not date outside of his race and is not attracted to white, asian or spanish women they still chase after him. Wome who are not black, what do you see in a black man that makes you chase after them, even if they don't want you? What is it about black men that make you want them so bad? My son is a college grad on his way to grad school and has no kids, very handsome and a good catch. I personally want him to settle down but I don't care if it is a white woman or black. As long as they treat him right. He does not date outside his race and it seems to make other races angry. Y?
2006-08-27 12:40:33 · 14 answers · asked by Tonya 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have dated men of different races, but I have never "chased" after any man. Maybe they are attacted to him? Don't let it worry you so much. Those girls who chase after guys even if they aren't wanted, will most likely keep chasing, regardless. I think there is a stereotype of black men that they want "all" women and have high sex drives, etc. So these ones chasing after your son are angry he doesn't fall into their rediculous ideal. I appluad you, by the way, for having a son that seems to have stanards and morals and well thought out plans....maybe you can give me advice on MY kids...lol
2006-08-27 12:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by jobie023 3 · 9⤊ 1⤋
I hate to admit it, but I'm black and have no clue why white women would want a black man. Some are cool, but white men outrank black men by far. They are Top Dogs. Yes I understand about the whole sexual thing but that's not enough for me to want be with a man. I guess I'm nuts.
2016-01-30 17:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jane Doe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a white woman dating a black man. I was not the one doing the chasing though. He pursued me and I surrendered willingly. *wink*
I'm 42 years old and he is the first black man that I have dated. I was attracted to his look at first and after getting to know him I began to admire his integrity, strength of character and the fact that he was brought up by a strong mother. This reflected on how he treated the women in his life and he treats me like a queen. His race has nothing to do with our relationship. He's a great man and I love him for that alone.
2006-08-27 13:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 3⤊ 8⤋
Sounds to me like you did your job well and raised a fine young man. Some women can see outside the race issue and know a good guy when they see one.
2006-08-27 12:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by serendipity 2 5 · 12⤊ 3⤋
first of all im white and i am with a black man BUT i did not chase him as you put it. some do chase but not all!and saying we white women chase is an insult.if you will look around there is as many black guys on the hunt for white meat as women are for black men.i have been married to white men twice.they are mostly hung up on themselves,controlling,jealous and insecure.when i met the guy i have been with for 11 yrs. i was not chasing. we started out as co-workers then friends.he treats me with respect and as an equal.and when i look at him i dont see color,just a very good man.your son is one of the few black guys that doesnt date out of his race,look around and check it out for yourself and you will see or just ask your son of his friends of how many like white women
2006-08-27 13:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 9⤋
You said it yourself-he's handsome and a good catch. Maybe that is the reason they are chasing him! It is probably not just because he is black...
2006-08-27 12:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by Leroy 5 · 10⤊ 2⤋
well I date black men because I am in love with there huge equipment...oh yess and they have it !!!!
2014-09-08 07:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by james 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
it is because it is a fad due to hip hop being so mainstream, i have heard a lot of white girls my age talk about a guy and be like he's black, oooooh. Your son sounds like a reasonable man, to avoid these shallow girls, he sees right through them and their empty skulls.
2006-08-27 12:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 2⤋
i am an italian women,firstly you have to know that black men are an attractive source ofr all of us because of there skin and features and the way they some treat a woman,its awhole romanceing thisg we have in our minds about them,personally givem the chance i would date one,white women think that black men will give them everything like in the movies thats the idea they have in there mind your son no doubt is very handsome other wise he wouldnt be approached so much,as amother take a back seat and wait for him to settle down you cant rush these things when the right woman comes black or white she will steal his heart and he will fall for her and only her and he will settle down to no other,and make you very proad,he is in his right to date within his race no one can deny a man or women of that and i think it is fair especially one day if he has children,the best thing he can do is perhaps not give to many bachelor vibes when he is out
2006-08-27 12:56:45 · answer #9 · answered by treatau 6 · 2⤊ 13⤋
i am 28 and white and been with my black bf for 14 years and dated alot of black men its the only thing im attracted to and i dont act black or any different than my self i know if i see a sexy one reguardless of there thoughts of me im gonna like them like 50cent or ll cool j, i dont think its any think its about white girls its just in to date outside your race ,i dont think everyones sole mate is always gonna be the same color as you plus the world is changing.........
2006-08-27 12:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 10⤋