My fiancee left me a few months ago? It came totally out of the blue. I think thier was already someone else. I was pregnant at the time (he didn't know when he left) and ended up having a miscarriage. I have date since then and think I may have even found someone I might like to have a relationship with but the ex is always on my mind. I am now having to go to court againest him because he was still sleeping with me and I threatened to tell his new girlfriend about it so he punched me in the face. I still love him and miss him. What do I do? How do I get over him?
2006-08-27 12:42:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I really believe that to get over him you will need to find someone new.Even then,it will still be hard.People say time will help but I still have not got over mine.Good luck!
2006-08-27 12:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by iluvsunsets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex punched you in the face, then that should be the final straw for him. No one has the right to hit you, no matter how angry he is or what you might have done. That is simply unacceptable behavior on his part, and should never be tolerated. How do you get over him? Tell yourself every day how lucky you are that you found out what kind of person he really is before you were tied to him with marriage and/or a child. There are too many great guys out there to settle for this one.
2006-08-27 12:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by AFL lover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you could do right now is let the days take its course. Like they say, if something is truly yours, it will come back to you, if not, it wasn't yours to begin with. Time heals broken hearts. Of course you will reminisce on the wonderful times, but you also need to think about yourself and how you want to end up. Was the love you BOTH shared real? It couldv'e been a great thing that he is no longer with you. So put all that in your mind, just be patient.
2006-08-27 12:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by amunirah84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can the "love of your life" be someone who punched you in the face??? If that isn't enough of a wake up call, I don't know what is. You need professional help with a good mental health therapist or psychologist to help you work through this. Your self-esteem has to be shot to long for someone who punches you in the face.and tell yourself he is the love of your life. Get some help.
2006-08-27 13:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a smart girl, move on with your life. This might sound morbid but it's like a death, you'll hurt in the beginning but you move forward. Why give this guy the time of day. Your hurt now but get over it, your a stronger person than that. Don't involve yourself in this kind of drama, take it one day at a time. Karma has a way of rewarding people that been hurt, just have to be patient.
2006-08-27 13:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to consider speaking with a councelor. If you're still able to hold onto feelings for someone who has physically hurt you then there might be an underlying issue that you need to deal with.
2006-08-27 12:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by ncladams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not an easy answer to this, nor is there an answer that you want to here. The only thing that will help is time. Maybe even a male companion.
2006-08-27 12:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by gapeach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That punch in the face would have done it for me.
2006-08-27 13:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a fist to the face didn't do it you are beyond help.
2006-08-27 13:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found moving 1,800 miles away helps.
2006-08-27 12:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by ms_books3736 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋