My girlfriend and I broke up about a month ago. She has been seeing someone else. She has called me the entire time we have been apart. The other day she saw me talking to a girl we both work with (just a friend) and got mad. I told her that we were no longer together so It shouldnt matter who I talk to. She was so mean about everything to I told her I didnt want to talk to her anymore (even though I do still love her) and that she should loose my number. Tonight she sent me a text asking are you still piss ed. When I didnt answer she asked if I wasnt talking to her anymore. What is her problem? Why does she keep trying to pull me back in? Any advice on this situation would be appreciated. I should probably add that she is the one that broke up with me.
2006-08-27 12:35:08 · 16 answers · asked by arikinder 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FlaChic - Thank you very much, I have let it go. I asked her to leave me alone. Ive made that clear.
2006-08-27 12:53:58 · update #1
well she obviously wants you back. She's using the other guy to make you jealous. Sit her down and ask her what is up and why she's being the way she is. make sure she knows that ur not going to play her games.
2006-08-27 12:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have NO idea friend. I just got out of a relationship with a psycho that has similar tendencies like this.
I think she still loves you, but she just wants to hurt you. Wants revenge....wants vindication, and won't ever admit that anything they did was wrong in any way. Makes you at fault, and makes you the cause of trouble, even tho they cause it most of the time.
It's immature, and not about love but about control. They want to run the show....all the time, and if you don't 'go along' then you're to blame for it.
You can't win. You love her....I understand that feeling at *least* as well as you do. I understand how you feel to a "T".
All I can say to you is what I've been doing and that is. Put things into perspective. Spend time around 'normal' people, don't over-think things. Don't blame yourself too much and let time heal.
Let her go. Let her deal with her own problems so that you can move on and find someone that IS good to you and WILL treat you like a human being.
It's rough.....it's hard to convince yourself that what you thought you felt in your heart was love....and what you thought THEY felt for you was love, was in fact, just an agenda....on their part.
Move on.....heal....be happy and find a good, solid love to be with.
Best of luck to you my friend.
2006-08-27 12:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 01:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me she still love I don't know why she broke up with you. But its just like when a boy break up with a girl and if he sees that girl talking to another boy he gets jealous. So I think that's how she feels. She don't wont you to be with no one else. If she sees you with someone and you are happy that makes her even madder.
2006-08-27 12:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by kita 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pretty obvious she's not done with you and if you pay too much attention to her it'd be clear you're not done with her either. Move on or she'll think she's got some control over you.
2006-08-27 12:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by Hera 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She wants to keep you around, and single, just in case she changes her mind. Vehicles usually come with a "spare tire", sounds like she wants to turn you into a "spare" also.
2006-08-27 12:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
once u love someone they are always a part of you that is how your girlfriend is feeling even though she broke up with you she still and probably always will love you
2006-08-27 12:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by chan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she has problems, she wants to do whatever she wants, but wants you to be there for her to be someone for her to fall back onto, otherwise she is using you playing the game. you did the right thing even though it hurts( another sign that she is using you) so just ignore her.
2006-08-27 12:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
she is obviously selfish. It probably didn't worked out between her and who ever she was trying to get and now she wants you back.Dude go on with your life
2006-08-27 12:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by jetzabel 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is sad...but people realize what they had after they lost it :( i have done the same thing ( i am a girl and i understand your ex) Happily for me i got back what i lost...actually what i threw away in a moment of "temporal insanity"
2006-08-27 12:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by Diana_84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋