Me and my ex boyfriend were together for 3 years in high school and then we broke up..We lost touch and he ended up getting a new girlfriend and they had a son...Now he wants me back 4 years later so we got back together..everything was fine until he started to have long conversations with his baby mother and he started to go over her house a lot. He always started to treat me different..she eventually moved in so me and him broke up..so three weeks later he calls me and say his baby mother only moved in for one day and that he see's that I'm his future wife because he loves me so much.. I am very jealous of the relationship he has with his baby mother... Should I take him back and trust that they have nothin going on? what is the proper way for a man to have a relationship with a baby mother and a girlfriend?...what should be accepted or not accepted?
2006-08-27 12:34:56 · 4 answers · asked by New New 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I wouldn't have got back with my ex (even if we loved each other) and he had a baby. You had to make sure that it was really over, plus I don't think it can really be over with his baby's mother..Because she has to be around too. It's her baby too !! Maybe you should about it with him. Ask him about his intentions and what he and you want! Good luck!
2006-08-27 12:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 02:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he wants to be in the child's life he will always have some kind of relationship with the mother. However, having the woman move in with him while he has a girlfriend is a bit much. Let him go. He wants to have you and the other on the side and he doesn't want you to say anything about it. If you want to be the other woman then stay with him but don't complain. If you want to have self-respect then find someone else.
2006-08-27 12:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by lady01love 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay so he says he loves you, wich is cool, how do you feel about him, forget about the baby mama thing, i mean does he treat you right, does he make you smile, do you love him back?
if you want to be with him i say go for it
i understand about the "is it over between them" thing, but they have a child together its never gonna be over between them, i dont think,
the question is can you handle that
think of divorce, man marries, has kids, divorces, remarries, he cant just cut his kid out cos he has a new wife,
this is similar
i hope you come up with a solution soon, just stay true to ureself okay...
2006-08-27 12:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by punkrockprincess 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋