ready to say it, and i told her i would say it when i felt the same way about her. Should i tell her i love you, or should i wait till the time is right when i'm ready.
2006-08-27 12:37:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't feel it don't say it. It will just cause problems later.
2006-08-27 12:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Boober Fraggle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready. I will say. I'm in the same thing that you are kinded a going threw and I told him straight up that I'm not ready to say and when I be ready I promise. I'll say it. An he says ok and he will wait for me and want force me to say it if I'm not ready. But if you are in love with someone. Else and your not ready to say it because you are waiting for her to come back. You need to get some closure from her. There no sense on having a woman in love all by her self.
2006-08-27 13:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her only when you are ready. She may be impatient and feel neglected but deep down she wants you to mean it. I know you might want to make her happy but saying "I love you" when you aren't ready is setting her up for some big hurt.
Take your time. You will know when the time is right. If she is pressuring you she may not really love you like she says she does. I hope it all works out.
best of luck.
2006-08-27 12:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by Liz L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her when your ready. Why say it now if you don't feel it that strongly yet. Let her know when you do tell her you love her you want it to be from the bottom of your heart. It will come natural when the time is right you will know!
2006-08-27 12:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even when you feel you are ready. Hold off it. Make it a habit to never say that you love or miss her. Be more of a challenge to her. Giving her what she wants.. will just make her lose interst in you and/or kill the excitement.
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2006-08-27 12:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love you is supposed to actaully mean something. I think its sad when I love you is abused, that could really mess with someone mentally. Don't tell her that until you are really ready, if you do say it to just say it, she may be looking at the relationship in a different perspective than you are. So spill it when you are ready
2006-08-27 12:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are ready to say it yourself. Saying something like that means a lot and you should only say it if you mean it. If she really loves you she will understand.
2006-08-27 12:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jordan H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait til it feels alright that makes sense to me because if you don't it might not be the right time for you and you might not really love her the way that she loves you and she might think that you like her the same amount as she likes you and you will be all messed up so use my advise and wait til it is the right time and that you love her as much as she loves you
2006-08-27 12:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you're ready... but tell her that you care about her and that you can feel yourself "falling" in love with her (if that's true) but you're just not ready to say "I love you". If there is a reason, tell her that as well. If you just won't say it, and leave her haning, then she may feel that you don't like her and you don't want to be with her. But don't lie to her, that's much worse than not saying it.
2006-08-27 12:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you on this one you should really wait until you really have those feelings to tell. the best thing to do now is tell her that you have really strong feelings for her and that love takes time to grow. but the feelings you have is something that could and will grow and develop into love but you can't rush it cause then it wouldn't be real.
2006-08-27 12:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh No!!!
This is a good saying to live by:
"Say what you mean and mean what you say"!
Be true to yourself! Don't let others try to change you!
If you do love her..... only say it when you are ready / comfortable in saying it! Say it when it feels right to you!
Best of Luck!
2006-08-27 12:46:08 · answer #11 · answered by TJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋