I have a big problem! Wherever I go, I seem to charm alot of boys. Even guys older than I am. And I like charming everyone, but the problem is that I am always flirting with all the guys. And I just can't stop flirting. It's not that I like them or something, but I have been flirting since like... the second grade! Can anyone help me.
2006-08-27 12:35:40 · 17 answers · asked by Casey Pearl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I SAID GIRLS ONLY!!!! Anyways, Its' not talking to the guys. It's actually my looks. I dress good, not like those hoochies. But I dress with what I am comfortable with.
2006-08-27 12:57:28 · update #1
hang out with girls only more. it might help get you out of the habit.
2006-08-27 12:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by smegalgurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are right, you do have a problem. You are looking for all the attention in life, and you are getting the wrong kind of attention. You are setting yourself up to be hurt in many ways in life, and you are probably going to be forced into things by unsavory guys who have no self control or respect for anyone other than themself.
You will eventually be given the name or reputation of being a tease also. please stop this behavior before you are harmed. If you can't stop, seek the help of a professional pshychiatrist. The community here at Yahoo Answers is not generally qualified to help you with this type of problem.
2006-08-27 12:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh that's normal. Seriously. There's nothing wrong with you, and you don't need help. I used to flirt with all the guys all the time, but when I got a really jealous boyfriend, it stopped. We broke up and now I'm back to doing the same flirting sh!t. lol. It just means that you're outgoing. =)
2006-08-27 12:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by Deniece 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well try to flirt less and you shouldnt be flirting with like way older guys because then they'll think you like them. If you flirt too much people might get a bad idea about you so just try to stop flirting with guys unless you actually like them.
2006-08-27 12:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by mg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly where you're coming from, I have the same problem too, all you gotta do is think about what your doing before you do it---I sometimes forget that I'm flirting and have to stop and say "WAIT!!! I'm flirting with him!" Ha-ha, but anyways, that's all you have to do
2006-08-27 12:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by CoolioGurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres noting rong...ur personality is verii open and vibatious..uu cant help it if u easily charm ppl...actually many ppl lack that quality no matter how hard they try...but keep the flirting to a minimum so it doesnt cross the line..ii use to be VERI flirtatious until ii met mi bf and it stopped butt charm doesnt...its genetic... :)
2006-08-27 12:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....just stop flirting with guys that u dont like......if u wanna make a good impression, then sure, that's fine...but once ur friends with whoever the person is....just hold off on the flirting...ok?...good luck :)
2006-08-27 12:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by Kiana 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have the same prob even with my cousin we charm try finding out what they like and b the opposite if that doesn't work then pretend to be sort of mad
2006-08-27 12:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH FLIRTING I DO IT ALL THE TIME JUST MAKE SURE THAT THE OTHER PERSONS CLEAR THATS IT ALL FUN AND LIGHT HEARTED!
2006-08-27 12:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by ELLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL SWEETY, YOUR A SOCIAL BUTTERFLY! THATS AWSOME! THE PROBLEM YOUR FACING RIGHT NOW IS JUST SOCIALIZING "TO MUCH" ITS OK TO TALK TO PEOPLE. BUT SWEETY YA NEED 2 KNOW WHEN TO STOP. IF YOUR NOT INTERESTED IN A GUY, ITS OK TO TALK TO HIM, JUST DONT TALK TO HIM ALOT AND HANG OUT WITH HIM. THAT COMES OFF TO GUYS AS "WOW SHE REALLY LIKES ME" ITS OK TO HANG WITH A GUY AND TALK TO HIM, BUT IF YOU DONT LIKE HIM, DONT TALK TO HIM OFTEN. GOOD LUCK SWEETY!!!
2006-08-27 12:42:58 · answer #10 · answered by Proud2bgoth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense intended but my advice would be to talk to guys the same way you talk to girls(cause I'm sure it's different)
2006-08-27 12:43:40 · answer #11 · answered by noodle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋