Family & Relationships - 25 August 2006

i have had the same gf for 15 years now,i do really care a'lot for her,but i do not love her,i have a Son 13 hes the main reason i stay with her.is it so wrong that i tell her i only want sex about once everyother week? i mean shes good in a'lot of way's,no drugs,no drinking, a good Mother to my son! we do nothing but fight, she thinks i see other women,and i never have in the 15 years i've been with her, i tell her if i had the money for a Polygraph i'de take one to prove to her i havent cheated. but it's never ending i look at other women, she accuses me of wanting her, i just like looking any suggestions here and serious ones please

2006-08-25 13:06:28 · 10 answers · asked by rpoker 6 in Singles & Dating

I work with a guy but he lives in another state. We have been flirting a little and one day we talked for 3 hours straight. He told me I was very very pretty, I had a lot going for me and I could go out w/any guy I want. I told him I was not at that place in my life and that I needed to take time to be by myself and figure out why my old relationship didn't work. We talked for about 1/2 after I made that statement and he was very friendly. On Thursday I was in town and he was suppose to come out with a a group of us but when I called he said it was a little late and he had work to do, maybe next time you are in town! I really like and am very attracted to him but I know I am not ready to have a relationship just yet. I really wanted to see him, even though it is probably better I didn't because I am so attracted to him. I'm confused and hurt. Do you think he was interested and now he doesn't even want to go out as friends?

2006-08-25 13:06:15 · 14 answers · asked by shar 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 13:05:45 · 15 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 13:05:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Husband (sounds weird at this point) and I have been separated for well over a year, after he cheated on me. Things had been shaky, with disagreements over the future, so I actually understood about that and have since almost really forgiven him. I don't miss him as a husband, but I miss my friend. We were best friends for seven years, three of them married. (Add four years at the end that weren't so great....) He was depressed when we started having trouble, but refused help from me or a doctor. We've barely talked in two months, and I called to say I'd gotten a lawyer & invited him to come with me so it could be done together. He said he'd just gotten medical help for depression two weeks ago and asked for some time before we complete this..... My heart aches b/c I still care about him as a friend, but when is enough enough???? I don't trust him since the betrayal....and I've been MORE than fair throughout this......What would you do?

2006-08-25 13:04:56 · 39 answers · asked by justme 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been dating this guy for a yr and a half. he has told me from day 1 that he didn't want a girl friend but i have said from day one that i wanted a boyfriend. we get along really well, the only fights we have are about his commitment to me. we talk about being together in the future all the time marriage, kids the whole nine. But he has yet to make things official. He has promised me that he is not seeing anyone else and i know he cares alot for me beacuse we have both been through alot over the past year, and he is the only person that i really have to depend on in my life. he says that we are boyfriend and girlfriend in every way except for the title. and this is a title that i really want, i have been really good to him and i feel like i deserve it, i want to know that he loves me. Bottom line i am really tired of waiting and i have met someone else who is breaking their neck to be with me. Should i move on???

2006-08-25 13:04:27 · 15 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to find my brother...
He is 21 going on 22
His birthday is September 5, 1983
Our Parents are: Joyce & Lenard Owens
I'm his older sister: Lisa Owens
His full name is: Jesse Lee Owens
The last I heard he was living somewhere in Tennesse with our uncle Charlie.

Does anyone know what part of Tennesse? Or if he still lives there?

2006-08-25 13:03:27 · 12 answers · asked by darkandtwisteddollz 1 in Family

Trying to find my sons email. I have lost contact with him and need to locate him immediatly. I am desperte as I am not sure where he is. My ex-mother-in-law has him.Either North Carolina or West Virginia I think. He is only 13 years old.

2006-08-25 13:02:34 · 8 answers · asked by Belinda Celayir 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Are these issues important? Sexual history & experience, children, age, looks, money, education, his family, friends, criminal history, job, intelligence,leadership qualities, has a good heart, ability to relate to women. I ask this question because I've met alot of women who date men who don't match their personality or needs but yet they still hold on them. I know what kind of man I want and I am not going to settle for less.

2006-08-25 13:02:31 · 9 answers · asked by prettybrowneyes. 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 13:02:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lack of knowledge

2006-08-25 13:02:27 · 6 answers · asked by judetip 1 in Singles & Dating

Seems to me that if you're not looking you're gonna miss it if and when it passes right by ya. How are you gonna see anything if you're not looking? Doesn't make sense.

2006-08-25 13:02:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 13:02:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

re add his sister someone accepted..do you think its him? I don't know the sister..before he used his and her's IM.

2006-08-25 13:01:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-guy friend told me he didn't want to speak to me anymore, because I was being too childish and that he has a girlfriend now. But for the past several months he's been calling me and trying to come over and kiss me, among other things, and yet he was dating this so-called serious girl at the time. He has a lot of skeletons in his closet, and I hope she finds out about every one of them.

2006-08-25 13:00:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i really like her but i do not know what to do or say to her


PLEASE HELP!!!!

2006-08-25 13:00:51 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 15 and have been in a relationship for a year now. Im not sure whether we should take it to the next step. I feel im ready but still a little doubtful. I think its just nevousness but I want to make the right decision. I know he wouldnt have a problem with it because he has mentioned it in the past and respected my answer towards it but can anyone share a similar experience or give me any suggestions on what i should do?

2006-08-25 13:00:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I like my underwear unfolded and neatly put in my top drawer but she is folding them in half and sticking some in the drawer below. Also, I like my socks folded into a ball and not tied together. But she folds them by tying them together. I haven't said anything yet, but its been a while and I'm thinking I might need to say something but not sure the best way. I mean she doesn't know I've taken my laundry over to mom's a few times because she folds better but I don't usually do this because my girlfriend uses fabric softener and mom doesn't use it because my dad doesn't like the smell. I mean my girlfriend washes clothes great, its the folding part I don't like because its not what I'm used to, plus my mom creases shirts better.

2006-08-25 12:59:20 · 34 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Singles & Dating

All the lame preps are starting to listen to P!ATD and F.O.B. I mean thats nice and all but yeah now there trying to act all emo and punk rock and they used to treats us like freax. Now when my friends were a P!ATD shirt they'll (preps) go OMG! i luv ur shirt i absolutely love them! That prooves that P!ATD cre8es miracles! Thank god 4 them!

2006-08-25 12:59:01 · 2 answers · asked by =)) 3 in Friends

We got into an argument after we were drinking, and she left due to my inattentiveness and being gone alot over the last year. This is our first year of marriage and I love her very much. She says she needs time, but thats the one thing I have none of. She wont talk to me on the phone, but will talk through mutual friends. All say that she is not cheating and I believe she is not. I just want her to come back and start to try again.

2006-08-25 12:58:43 · 18 answers · asked by snafulikeu2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-25 12:58:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I always get the wrough guy!!! Y is that??!!

2006-08-25 12:58:04 · 8 answers · asked by Devinney 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 12:57:58 · 14 answers · asked by looking4answers 1 in Family

If a guy looks at your lips when talking to you and it seems as if he's making it obvious. Does this mean he just wants to sleep with you? And does he find you attractive?

2006-08-25 12:57:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend promised me when we go to school together she'll never ditch me and introduce me to her friends since i was new but all shes done is just leave me for all her friends. It sucks because I'm alone. I've made friends but they have their own friends too and i dont have much to talk about with them. What do I do?

2006-08-25 12:56:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I want to file for divorce (uncontested) but I don't know the steps to do it. I have the forms filled out but dont know where do go from there. Do I have HIM sign the papers and then send them to the local court? Or do I just send them without his signature??

2006-08-25 12:56:02 · 6 answers · asked by Leah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-25 12:54:48 · 4 answers · asked by naomihank 3 in Family

more then once, and you used to like eachother, but he hasn't made any moves to ask you out. Is it alright to kiss again?

2006-08-25 12:54:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I called him and I asked him out he said he couldnt come because he had drivers ed. But that wasnt true he said no because he had a gf and when I asked him out again he said he had homework but that wasnt true neither its during summer.

2006-08-25 12:53:59 · 3 answers · asked by Hockey gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend works at a hotel and met a man there.

She is 14. He is 48. And she tells me all about him and how she loves him and how he's sooo sweet and nice to her. She thinks she is in love. For all i know, she could be!

But i'm scared for her. She knows that, but ignores my requests to stop attempting a romantic relationship with him! He's MARRIED, for god's sake!

Her future "plan" is to somehow get him single again, get him to love her, and marry him. Not only is that effing impossible, it would be morally WRONG if she succeded.

What should I say to her?

2006-08-25 12:53:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends