My ex-guy friend told me he didn't want to speak to me anymore, because I was being too childish and that he has a girlfriend now. But for the past several months he's been calling me and trying to come over and kiss me, among other things, and yet he was dating this so-called serious girl at the time. He has a lot of skeletons in his closet, and I hope she finds out about every one of them.
2006-08-25 13:00:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
And he got another girl pregnant and hid it from his so-called girlfriend by paying for her abortion.
2006-08-25 13:02:18 · update #1
some?
2006-08-25 13:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by mamabird 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow. Girl have u got some real life experiences there. Thank God they happend now and not latter. I think what you need is to wait for mr. right to come along and you'll get all that good stuff the last jerk denied you of. I hope it all works out for you. And not all guys are jerks just him.
2006-08-25 13:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A couple of reasons.
1. He's immature.
2. He's self-centered.
3. He's incapable of commitment at this time.
4. He's irresponsible.
The real question is, why do you put up with it? Determine how you want to be treated and don't settle for anything less.
2006-08-25 13:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by rexhades 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason some women are jerks...we are all people. Sounds like this guy needs to grow up. He wants you on the side. You should tell him to piss off and tell his girlfriend.
2006-08-25 13:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all are jerks, I am sure you will find a kind guy if you look. You may need to get past the superficial BS first!
2006-08-25 13:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk because it works for him. He gets what he wants apparently. Which is sex.
Just a thought.
If you find a guy who doesn't just want sex, he might not turn out to be a jerk. ;)
2006-08-25 13:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by moment_in_passing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to keep you interested in him- it is a power thing, he has low self esteem and needs to be reassured constantly- or hey maybe he just never matured past the age of two.
2006-08-25 13:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by Angie A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we we feel inadequate when we feel that the woman is is getting too close and that woman will see us as weak because we feel the need to be in control of the relationship. and our pride gets us in trouble more times than not.
2006-08-25 13:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys weren't brought up to respect women and that's why some guys are jerks
2006-08-25 13:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by sparks2228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's how some guys are... you just have forget the past and move forward to find the right man for you
2006-08-25 13:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by papiloghost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma is a bltch (so don't worry what comes around goes around) and everything comes out in the wash.
2006-08-25 13:02:50 · answer #11 · answered by Jizzy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋