Family & Relationships - 25 August 2006

Okay, I have this friend, I'll call her....Jessie. Well, Jessie has really been making me mad lately. Here's why:
I had this best friend in pre-school, and she and I became REALLY close. And then we went to grade school, and both went to different ones. And after that we didn't really speak again until now. I mean, in third grade, we sent letters to each other. Only one though. Because her grandma was a sub at my old school, and she let us talk to eachother through letters. (Like I would write her a letter, thern she's write me one...and so on. Well, now we're both in middle school together. And aren't as close anymore. Jessie..(My other friend), well, it seems like she's stealing her away from me. I don't know what I am. Maybe Jealous? What should I do? I don't want to talk to Emily...(My friend since preschool) and say like " I'm jealous of Jessie. She's stealing you away from me." I just don't know what to do. Help!

2006-08-25 13:33:58 · 13 answers · asked by Kimberly V 1 in Friends

so i was wondering if anyone could give me good hints and flirting to get him to like me more....cuz i am sick of waiting for him to ask
me, lol, so i wanted to sorta speed things up a bit...so if someone could plz help me in some good hints...

2006-08-25 13:33:30 · 1 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

when i was 10 i had a baby by my dad im now 36 have 3 kids should i try to find her.

2006-08-25 13:33:19 · 7 answers · asked by imslipperynwet 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please pray about the following and answer only as the Holy Spirit and your heart directs you. Thanks and please pray for insight for others as God leads them in a message of direction/encouragement.

How do you help someone understand God the Father's love for them if they have had messages of a very harsh judgmental God,
been frightened by this and hell, negative tapes. You are also told they have had a very negative & cold relationship with their earthly dad and mother ever since they can remember...and also other adult males have treated them unkindly even though family or said sure, I love you....but see or have little emotional, physical, or spiritual ties.

Ever encountered this by someone or worked thru it yourself with God's help and the support/prayers of another? What did you say to help them begin to understand or how did you get thru it by personal experience?

Thanks for praying and giving your time.

2006-08-25 13:32:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This woman is curvy and thick but not obese. Measurements are 36-31-46. Is this totally unattractive or do some guys find a thick girl attractive? What's the real deal?

2006-08-25 13:31:59 · 26 answers · asked by intentionalmasterpiece 5 in Singles & Dating

all you idiots who answered blonde question rcwr440 your all mugs thanks ,,get a job loosers

2006-08-25 13:31:24 · 7 answers · asked by rcwr440 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 13:30:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He used to joke with me, talk with me, smile at me and flirt with me. Lately, he can't even look me in the eye, can't say more than 5 words to me, has stopped flirting, and would walk away in a hurry when I'm around. What's he trying to tell me?

2006-08-25 13:30:07 · 23 answers · asked by Confused_Rep 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok... here's the thing, I have a best friend for like 2 years now, and everytime we've talked she would talk normal, saying every word right. Now she is going to this school that is way different and almost all the kids talk "gangsta", and now she is starting to talk like them. I'm not saying it's stupid, all I'm saying it's that I feel like I'm not talking to my best friend anymore... and it's really sad because she says she can't stop talking like that but I know she can at least try and talk normal. And I swear to god I'm not racist because she is black and she is my best friend for a loooong time. So please what can I do to make her talk normal again???

2006-08-25 13:30:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we'll iv liked this grl for 3 years and i really want to ask her out. i hang wit her a lot in skool and stuff and tlk to her a lot. i dont want to ruin the friendship by askin her out, do you think askin her out will ruin it?

2006-08-25 13:29:42 · 4 answers · asked by jwkymry 1 in Singles & Dating

I myself am a foster kid and it surprises people. what do people generally think about foster kids? We're not bad...it's our parents who are bad. It's dumb to judge a kid...just cause he/she is a foster kid.

2006-08-25 13:29:37 · 8 answers · asked by The_Resa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-25 13:29:27 · 28 answers · asked by billgressman 2 in Singles & Dating

and he started to cut himself because of someone else. when one of his other friends told a consuler the other person got mad. i wasn't in it and i still am not. i think he knows because i sit with the person that told the consluer and she did it because she cares about him. i walk home with him and he acts different around me (i hang out with jim at school) and hen we are alone he is different. i want to help him, but i don't want to get in this whole thing..... what can i do???? please help!
also i have only known him for 6-7 months

2006-08-25 13:29:20 · 8 answers · asked by kay 1 in Friends

2006-08-25 13:28:40 · 14 answers · asked by fsh_paste 2 in Singles & Dating

get rid of him and txt me i could look after you im very rich 07814784138 charly cheers

2006-08-25 13:28:29 · 5 answers · asked by rcwr440 1 in Singles & Dating

does it just irritate them more. The reason for my question is when my boyfriend hurts my feelings I cry sometimes (I'm not overly sensitive) and it seems to make him angry. Are most men like this or is it just him being insensitve?

2006-08-25 13:28:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there such a type of psychological disorder or whatnot, that causes a person to be turned away from being affectionate, intimate, desiring marriage or a relationship. I've begun to notice that I never wanted a girlfriend and I still don't. I don't feel as though I have the capabilities of being affectionate, intimate, etc. I've studied my sexual orientation, concluding that, yes I do find women attractive I have nothing inside of me that says ''go get her.' What would have caused this because everyone makes me feel odd when they are shocked that I've never had a girlfriend, don't want one and never want to be married. I am 21-years-old... this just something in the "stage's of being a young adult."

2006-08-25 13:27:42 · 19 answers · asked by daledeloy 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and i really want him to like me.

2006-08-25 13:27:26 · 12 answers · asked by dancerforever101 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-25 13:26:50 · 7 answers · asked by my_a7lamy 3 in Friends

Tell me how nasty you've been.

2006-08-25 13:26:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 13:23:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont wanna break up w/ him but what should I do?

2006-08-25 13:23:41 · 18 answers · asked by Am I in Love? 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a 2 year old and an infant. It is really important to me that they become friends later in life and I feel like I am already goofing up - the 2 year old already seems to resent her sister because of the amount of time I have to spend with her. Anyway, I'd love to hear from other moms (and dads!) with older kids on how they got their kids to become friends.

2006-08-25 13:22:56 · 18 answers · asked by Katie R 2 in Family

Today my friends told me that they will tell me what we are doing tonight, and that was couple hours ago. I found out just now that all of them left for a party without telling me. Why didnt my "friends" just tell me straight out they didnt want me to hang out with them, instead they told me that they will tell me what is going on tonight. Personally i think it is rude, immature, and something a high school kid would do...and all of us are 21. it irritates the hell out of me.

2006-08-25 13:22:53 · 12 answers · asked by qtgirliexox008 1 in Friends

He flirted, and then backed off. But then was just friendly in a non flirty way, although still sometimes flirting, like winking at me after a conversation with a big smile. But only conversing with me when it's school related. I think he's always had a slight feeling that I am attracted to him. Recently when he came over and just stood by my desk after handing me something. I tried to make small talk he acted really odd. Shy nervous and distant. And for a week couldn't make eye contact with me it was like I wasn't in the room. Yet then when he handed me something he stared in my eyes for like 5 seconds then looked down and laughed. I couldn't take it so I started ignoring him. When I did this. He tried to get my attention by playing a joke. Now he's acting normal again like he did before able to look at me and not act strange. Back to the way it was before I tried to make small talk. Past my desk to look at me and say hi. What message is he trying to send?

2006-08-25 13:21:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

causi i love my boyfriend and i still hang with my ex

2006-08-25 13:21:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 13:21:03 · 14 answers · asked by want_me_luv_me 4 in Singles & Dating

I know there are porn mags devoted to the worship of fat girls; but are there guys that really are into that! Help me understand this.

2006-08-25 13:20:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Give me whatever advice you have I'm going to need it.

2006-08-25 13:20:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the best way to find out if your b/f was cheating on you when he gets home from "work"???

2006-08-25 13:20:13 · 9 answers · asked by Jersey Girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce