Spontaneity is something some people can do and for others its simply impossible. If your one of those people who constanly make lists or overthink everything. STOP or LIMIT it. Don't think about being spontaneous. Just be random. Everyone has that random side of them. If you're naturally random, then this shouldn't be much of a problem. If you tend to be...umm... 'un'random then just let loose and find some people that are random and hang out with them, or you could people-watch. Both ways are easy ways to pick up spontaniety.
For flirting, just be yourself and make some jokes. When you're talking to any guy you deem suitable and he kinda seems into you, touch him in the middle arm (not too close to the hand or shoulder). Do this only when your saying something flirtatious, or when you really want to get your point across. Keep eye contact with the guy(s) you're talking to. Don't be too uptight.
After some time all of this will become second-nature to you. GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-25 13:37:38
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answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4
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well settle down hot pants,first thing you need to do is just be yourself,be kind be nice flip your hair around a few times,wear tight jeans,thongs work well to! yah know the kind when you lol bend over in front of him,he sees that thong ur wearing lol,let me know how it goes lol
2006-08-25 20:33:57
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answered by rpoker 6
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if you have a sense of humor --USE IT!!
everybody likes a person who can laugh at themselves.
flirting you have to maintain eye contact and laughand
be comfortable with yourself.....don't do anything that
would compromise you in any way-since how can you
be having fun--if even you don't like you!!
2006-08-25 20:25:42
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answered by f4fanactic 6
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just be your self!!...we hate fake guys!!
2006-08-25 20:31:46
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answered by Anonymous
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relax, don't fake, don't be anxious.
2006-08-25 20:38:03
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answered by Gabrio 7
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