causi i love my boyfriend and i still hang with my ex
2006-08-25 13:21:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope - you are just a normal female who wants what she can't have, or shouldn't have.
Very normal for you to not be able to make up your mind - it's just the female condition and part of being the weaker sex.
2006-08-25 13:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok well you love your boyfriend, well that's wonderful. And well you love your ex too. That's a problem. There is nothing wrong with hanging out with your ex. I mean he was once your boyfriend so it's not like you just totally don't like him anymore. Because their were certain things that caused you to like him in the beginning. So most likely those thing haven't changed. The problem is that your feelings for your boyfriend should be alot stronger than for your ex. I mean of course your still going to have some sort of feelings for your ex. But if you truly believe you love your ex, and you know you love your boyfriend. Then well you need to sit yourself down and think about which guy means more to you. When you have that figured out, then go do something about it. If you know you love your boyfriend alot more than your ex. Then you need to work on making your feelings for your ex on a friends level. Nothing wrong with loving your ex as a friend. It's perfectly normal. But if you continue to let your feelings for both guys be a love feeling. Your going to run into the problem of which one do you like more, and eventually you'll start to question if you are with the right guy. You don't want all that stress or confusion. So figure it out, and make your choices.
2006-08-25 20:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't bad to care about two people it happens all the time. B ut hanging out with the X is another story. Don't do it. If you respect the new bf then stop seeing the X.
If you guys are in a group of friends then thats ok, but one on one........well that could spell danger.
2006-08-25 20:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could consider yourself a dishonest person. It's not bad to love two people but, what if your boyfriend was doing this to you, how would you feel? And wouldn't you want to be notified if your man was still in love with his ex?
2006-08-25 20:24:49 · answer #4 · answered by Golden Scepter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you just think of your ex as a friend, then things should be fine.
But if you're still romantically attached to your ex, well, that's not good, considering your situation. It doen't make you a horrible person, it's just not a nice thing to do to your boyfriend.
2006-08-25 20:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by Casimir Alexander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be able to keep them from becoming jealous, and if the other way around wouldn't bother you, I'd say you're a person with a lot of love in her heart. And here's to that.:-)
2006-08-25 20:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by Tall Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't a bad person. This "one love" is kinda messed up to me. He's THE one. Good grief!!! Unfortunately tho, in our society if you do love more than one person you are looked down upon. If both guys don't care that you love them both, then you shouldn't worry about what other people think.
2006-08-25 20:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by Claire52 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not at all girl
just because you love someone does not mean you exclusively belong to that person
spread the love, i say, the more people you love the better
the world could do with a lot more love!!!!
but in the case of boyfriends you have to be a little more carefull, dont do something your gonna regret later
good luck okay, dont be so hard on yourself!!!!
2006-08-25 20:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by punkrockprincess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have 2 lovers. One is alpha, the other is a boyfriend that I never really gave up but, he travels out of the coutry half the time.
2006-08-25 20:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No because any body can love how many they w ant to be you care about them and dont want anything bad to happen to them because I use to be in the same postion once
2006-08-25 20:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by young_n_sweet06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋