Family & Relationships - 24 August 2006

Now that I think I have my life under control, I'm ready to settle down. Trouble is, since I didn't go dating when I was younger, I don't know where to find myself a wife or even a girlfriend. No one at work or neighbors is available. When I had free time, I visited a singles bar and hated the smoke and loud music. Plus, the women were in large groups, intimidating for one man. How do I know who is available? How do I talk to one without offending her friends? What else can I do besides the nightlife?

Thank you

2006-08-24 13:24:12 · 13 answers · asked by layzing 2 in Singles & Dating

i ride with this guy on the school bus....and there aren't that many ppl that ride on the same bus....so me and him somehow always end up sitting near each other....and i noticed he constantly stares at me!!! for some reason, i feel like he likes me....i dont really like him...he's not cute or anything...but he's really nice.he's new to my scool...and he tries talking to me and i would like 2 talk to him too...i just don't know how to approach him.

2006-08-24 13:23:49 · 14 answers · asked by 2cute4u 2 in Singles & Dating

well my bf is really good at eating me out but he does the same things usually- what r some teqniques i can tell him to do that will just blow my mind?

2006-08-24 13:23:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My BF doesn't like to lick me down there. But he loves it when i do oral sex to him. He says its not me, he just doesn't like to perform oral sex. I'm clean, i'm shaved...why doesn't he!? I LOVE oral sex. Why doesn't he like oral sex? anybody know?

2006-08-24 13:23:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend for about a month and it's been going good so far the only thing is that i met him online and he lives about an hour an a half from me but we both don't have our own cars and we only see each other about once a month. Even though we talk on the phone everyday and talk online it doesn't seem to be enough for me or for him. What are some ways for both of us to deal with the fact that we can't see or be with each other everyday like other couples?

2006-08-24 13:21:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Most of my friends will be busy tom. night, so any suggestions of what I could do solo?

2006-08-24 13:21:15 · 8 answers · asked by M Double 3 in Singles & Dating

My G/F and I have been going out now for 6 weeks and everything is really great. No sex involved yet or anything like that. The only big problem in our relationship is me not giving her the amount of trust she deserves/wants. My question is, I want to tell her that I will do my best to give her my full trust. I wont bring up the topics of jealousy, not believing her, and not trusting her anymore. She also tells me I can and that she wants to love me but I keep pushing her away because of the lack of trust I have for her. Is there a way I can more than just tell her that I am serious about giving her all my trust, no doubts what so ever. I want her to fully believe me when I say it this time. Any advice would be appreciated. :)

Oh one last thing, she has told me many times she hasnt done absolutely anything behind my back or has never lied to me about anything.

2006-08-24 13:21:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I personally dont think i should still be her friend because she always acts like this.

2006-08-24 13:20:36 · 34 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 1 in Friends

okay- my friend had a crush on this guy. so they became boyfriend and girlfriend. so he started asking her for sex. she was a virgin so she said no and he dumped her after a week. but she still liked him. and just like he said she had sex with him( he still didnt go back with her.) so about 8 months later she texted him and asked him to be her cut buddy( for yall that dont know, a cut buddy is a person you sleep w/ regulary but have no attachment). so he asked her to go with him that same day. she said yes 'of course'. then 2 dayz after they got back together he told her cousin that he didnt like her and didnt want to be with her.he also said" i bet if you tell her she wont believe you". so her cousin told her and like a FOOL she didnt believe her and continued to be wit him. she wanted to go take pictures with him and he wouldnt even pay for them. all he wants is sex. everyone is trying to tell her but she wont listen .what should i do. please help? what do you think of think of this?

2006-08-24 13:20:33 · 20 answers · asked by kandy_kiss16 2 in Friends

Im kinda sprung on my neighbor the only problem is we dont talk, i mean every time i take out the trash he stares like crazy and he recently sent me a message saying "you see me all the time dont be afraid to say hi" but Im really shy and I wouldnt know what to say, we have a lot in common but still. Do you think he likes me and how should I continue getting his attention if he does like me?????

2006-08-24 13:20:02 · 12 answers · asked by blondiechick033 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, deep question, no dorky mean answers. Just the truth!

Your choice for a wife for life:

Girl A: she is high matinence...hot as hell though. Tight body, great looks. Lotsa money. Doesnt care for those "lower" than her. Kids are a pain. So are pets. Just the high life of high class parties and high end clothes to share with you! And a freak in bed!

Girl B: Very down to earth, modest and caring. Not so hot but kinda cute in a girl next door kinda way. OK body, could improve but she rather help out at the Humane Society than work out or party. Loves kids & cant wait to have them when she gets older. Working class, wants things planned, not into spontanouis things. Not so great in bed but always wants it.

Girl C: She's cute but overweight. Not by laziness but some genes. Not Grossly Obese but extra baggage. She is loving, kind, always a warm dinner waiting for you. You think this girl does no wrong, would give shirt of her back. FUN SEX!

Who would you pick & WHY?

2006-08-24 13:19:48 · 10 answers · asked by Miz_Kassandra 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 13:19:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I received a lot of positive answers (some negative also). I have decided not to start smoking cigarettes. As for my friends, I'm cutting them out of my life, one by one and seeking new friends. One friend, after reading the Yahoo! Answers is going to quit and change his friends. I want to thank everyone who responded positive to my question yesterday, 8-23-06. You've all been a big help to me.

2006-08-24 13:18:33 · 8 answers · asked by ZORRO 3 in Friends

I am trying to fight the temptation of sexual relationships. I start relationships and then quickly get bored with the sex and move on. How can i look at men for more than sex?

2006-08-24 13:17:55 · 20 answers · asked by kela_datruest 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend likes to watch porn with Japanese women in it. Neither of us are Asian...I am white. He says that it is a fantasy but should I be worried that he prefers Japanese women?

2006-08-24 13:16:48 · 12 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked a question the other day about sex with an ex, one of the answers I got said that basically even if nothing has happened, talking to an ex, about the possibilty of having sex behind spouses back is steal cheating. Do you agree with that

2006-08-24 13:16:33 · 15 answers · asked by annie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really like dis guy and i think he like me bac.

2006-08-24 13:15:42 · 7 answers · asked by Hazel B 3 in Friends

My nephew killed himself last month. I dont know what to do i feel so alone me and him were close. Now i feel like i have lost everything.I dont know what to do. can someone help me please?

2006-08-24 13:14:49 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My guy friend, who is gay, overheard me talking to one of my girl friends about me being invited to go somewhere with a girl we all work with..I explained to my friend about how I don't feel comfortable going, because I don't really know her and that she's bringing her boyfriend and some other friends and I would feel out numbered..anyway, he came out and told me not to go with her, she's bad news(and a few other choice words!!)..this completely shocked me because I didn't think he actually cared!! does this mean he considers us friends??

2006-08-24 13:13:55 · 21 answers · asked by confusedgirl 2 in Friends

I see so many young females fighting half naked or trying to rip of other females clothing. What is causing this disturbing behavior.

2006-08-24 13:13:54 · 25 answers · asked by CHULA5 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 13:13:42 · 3 answers · asked by CuriousGal 1 in Family

What kind of things turn you on that your husband or boyfriend does for you? What would you like them to do more of and less of?

2006-08-24 13:13:17 · 16 answers · asked by tjoe1980 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy I'm seeing lied to me and said he wasn't hiding anything. He freaked out when I grabbed his phone, because he didn't want me to go through his text messages. He said it's personal but that he had nothing to hide. I later found a message sent to a married woman he once had an affair with that said "I loved last night. Mwaah." His explanation? He went to show her off to a friend the night before 'cause his friend didn't believe he had slept with a married woman. What's up with this?! Can this guy be trusted?

2006-08-24 13:13:02 · 6 answers · asked by bella_suga_cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in the pool in my backyard, I had tucked my swimming suit top down a little to sun the twins- I heard a commotion and looked up to see my nasty neighbor with his head on my fence and was watching me- the commotion was his wife catchin him and raising hell--do you think if I get a beebee gun and get him in the eye with it next time,I could say it was an accident and not get charged?

2006-08-24 13:12:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 15 and my bst friend is 17 but hes neva had a girlfriend, hes only eva kissed 1 girl and he dosnt go out alot!!!
Iv loads o girls as friends and go out all da time + iv kissed way more girls dan him!!!
--- When ever i tell him bout girls iv "ben" wit or wat happened at da discos I always feel like im rubbing it in his face like a basterd!!

--- How do I talk 2 him wit-out tinking/feelin like dis?????

2006-08-24 13:12:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-24 13:12:31 · 7 answers · asked by One_Man_Show 2 in Singles & Dating

I am downright ugly. I have a big nose, a skinny face, a long neck, balding, out of shape, and hairy all over my body. I am an utter loser. But it bothers me a lot that I can't go up to women. I am 33 and still a virgin. This is making me depressed more and more each day. How can a girl find me remotely attractive? If I were a woman, I wouldn't go out with a guy like me, no matter how great my personality is. I hate feeling like this. I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life, but maybe this is what I am destined to be. I want to be happy. I wish I had the confidence to approach women.

2006-08-24 13:11:47 · 4 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Singles & Dating

well my cousins friend this guy is soooo sexy and when he met me at my cousins graduation he told me that i was beautiful and sexy and we both liked eachother, but he didnt ask me out. well a couple months past and we added eachothers myspaces and he told me that my picture looked beautiful and stuff like that...do you think he is going to ask me out?

2006-08-24 13:11:39 · 19 answers · asked by [blahh] ™ 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 13:11:31 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 13:11:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce