What kind of things turn you on that your husband or boyfriend does for you? What would you like them to do more of and less of?
2006-08-24 13:13:17 · 16 answers · asked by tjoe1980 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After reading the other answers... I think I can safely say... foreplay... meaning hugging, kissing, cuddling, soft music, flowers.. yea.. the 'mushy stuff' that is not the wham bamm kind of thing. A shoulder rub... a foot rub.. breakfast in bed, a sleep in for her...then a soft awakening kiss. (etc)
Yes, yes, we can be raunchy, but that's too easy to get from guys. I personally would like to be treated like a delicate precious doll and treasured. Treated kindly and sweetly. A note on the pillow a thank you for the meal I prepared. To have a meal prepared FOR me! To be appreciated beyond the abilility to call over a "thanks" over your shoulder. Hope that's not over the top for you. That is the simple things that I would like.
OH, what DOES he do? ah... ah.... I'm still trying to think of something....
2006-08-24 14:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love when my boyfriend turns the frickin' tv off and turns on some music, especially if he turns on the right music (we both benefit that way, I love to give him lap dances-shhh, he doesn't know that I actually enjoy that so don't tell, it's kinda cool to be a stripper for a night). It's really nice to have the routine broken, we've been together for almost 4 years and we've already gotten into a really nasty habit of going to work, coming home and putting comfy pants on, watching some TV and going to sleep. One of the things that gets me really turned on is when we cook dinner together (there's usually a couple bottles of wine involved so that doesn't hurt either) and we have a date at home, it's like we're still in that fresh, new stage of a relationship.
2006-08-24 20:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by sarahsmiles1222 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being spontainious is always a huge turn on. It's the small thoughtful things that seem to come from nowhere that turns a woman - any woman on. Walk up behind her and give her a hug and a kiss on the cheek and watch her face light up.
2006-08-24 20:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It turns me on when he just gets up out of the blue and turns off the T,V, and turns on our songs and turns to me to get up and dance with him one thing leads to another and so on. It will really turn things around if she is mad at you or you can have a candel light dinner and your song playing over and over or a couple of slow songs playing.then dance after dinner the dishes can wait. or Just bring her some fresh picked wild flowers she would love that how long has it been since you brought her some flowers. I love it when my hubby sucks my toes
2006-08-24 20:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyes092602 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the way my guy looks turns me on when he is in a screen tee and a nice pair of jeans with his Boston Red Sox hat on I just want to attack him. He is the best kisser he has soft lips and he knows how to use his tongue.
2006-08-24 20:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soft kisses and ignoring me a little I know that sound crazy but I like it when he knows I want sex and he does everything extra slow to tease me I LOVE IT!!!
2006-08-25 16:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by dreamgirl4myboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it when he just holds me and doesn't expect anything in return. I'm not saying I'm against for play or anything else, I just Like to cuddle and be held.
2006-08-24 20:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just wear shirts that a short but not to short tha get him going or i tell him that i want him that works too or i buy a new bra underwear or a g string
2006-08-24 20:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by tennisnsar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really turned on when I know he is turned on.
2006-08-24 20:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by rchbrk6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is a deputy and i love it when he comes home. i love the way he looks in a uniform that's enough for me!!!
2006-08-24 20:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by Zoey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋