I am trying to fight the temptation of sexual relationships. I start relationships and then quickly get bored with the sex and move on. How can i look at men for more than sex?
2006-08-24 13:17:55 · 20 answers · asked by kela_datruest 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a very interesting and good question. It may take a good deal more work and thinking than can be done here. A couple of questions. You apparently get nothing lasting out of the sex, right? Do you have men friends? That is friends who are guys on whom you can rely for give and take in conversation, and with whom you can relate for more than just "high, how are you?" Do you find guys interesting and do you connect with them intellectually or emotionally before, during, or after sex? If not, why not? Can you say why not?
2006-08-24 13:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to find someone who is just as hooked and wants sex as frequently as you
make sure you find that person before you sleep with the guy.
you need to spice up your sex life also; try new things once in a while, like the moods; the positions; the settings; the area;
i think that you need some excitement in your sex life thats all
plus you have to give your self some time to start to like the guy; i mean really like the guy before you have sex with him and stop looking at him for a sex affair and look at him for a relationship and then i think that you would be better off in relationship wise.
2006-08-24 13:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of changing partners , change yourself ! There is something missing ,if you are craving sex and one guy isn't making you satisfied so you go to the next and so on ! not to be mean but do you know how to please yourself sexually and take care of all your emotional needs as well? if not first learn this , or you will never find what u r looking for . enjoy your journey of self exploration and don't feel you have to be ashamed you will be a much easier person to please once you know what you need and want
2006-08-24 13:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by yvette b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be several issues, the most serious of which would be sexual addiction. I believe that you should spend an hour or two with a real counselor and discover what the root of the cause of this situation is. Your life will be better for it.
2006-08-24 13:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lost M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with just sex, if that is all you desire? Just make sure you are honest with them about not wanting anything long term or monogamous. You just may be in a period of your life where the physical is all that is desired...when you want more from a relationship (or guy) you'll know...don't force it...go with how you feel...you'll be happier...
2006-08-24 13:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go into a relationship..dont look and stop looking at men..lol..if u can do that that you're way far from temptation of sexual relationship..lol..
2006-08-24 13:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by just me:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop basing your relationship on just sex
2006-08-24 13:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by joesy617 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get counseling for yourself. You have low self-esteem and are acting like a cheap whore. If you continue, you will pay a hefty price and end up in the gutter, sweetie!
2006-08-24 13:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with a guy and get to know them.
Try and connect on common interest like music, movies, etc.
Go from there.
2006-08-24 13:22:02 · answer #9 · answered by Juliana Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy. find a man whom you like, but doesn't want to sleep with you. it'll probably be difficult, because men are incredibly easy to persuade, but give it a try. at least then you'll get bored of his personality instead of his penis.
2006-08-24 13:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by andyb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋