My boyfriend likes to watch porn with Japanese women in it. Neither of us are Asian...I am white. He says that it is a fantasy but should I be worried that he prefers Japanese women?
2006-08-24 13:16:48 · 12 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not unless he starts making you change your appearance to be more Japenese looking. Asian women are a fantasy for many men. It's because they thing they are submissive. I'ts a lie but that is what many men believe.
2006-08-24 13:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not be worried he like Asian women, that part is a fantasy. Is it the Asian women that bother you or is it the porn?
Does watching the porn interfere with the rest of his life? does it change how he treats you? If the answer is no to both of those questions, I would say don't worry about the porn either.
As an experiment, bring home some porn yourself. Something YOU would actually like to see. See how he reacts to it. does he get hostile, does it intrigue him. You may discover something about him you didn't know.
2006-08-24 13:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by glenbarrington 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pornography, like gambling and other habits, can become addictive. You have to ask yourself whether it:
1. Adversely affects your relationship with him?
2. Affects your sex life?
3. Causes financial hardship because of his expenditures?
4. Is he hiding part of his habit?
Any of these can be signs of addiction. Be wise and be careful!
2006-08-24 13:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by Lost M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. It's just fantasy. If he breaks up with you and dates an Asian woman then you can be concerned.
2006-08-24 13:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you shouldn't be worried i watch porn all the time but i don't act on it. You should try to get into it with him it might make your sex life a little more interesting.
2006-08-24 13:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by kela_datruest 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fantasies are just fantasies. Judge him on his actions.
2006-08-24 13:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by Dean B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, fantasies are just fantasies. indulge with him. I'm sure you have your own, don't you ;)
2006-08-24 13:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont be...he just likes to listen to the whimpering..LOL
2006-08-24 13:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unless he meets a Japanese woman, then no you souldn't
2006-08-24 13:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by originalquene 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
leave the kid alone
2006-08-24 13:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋