Family & Relationships - 23 August 2006

i just want the pain to stop,, i just want to be able to look at him and not miss him so much,, i just want it all to go away, to be me again, like i never met him,, i also want the guy i have been seeing to understand that i will never be what he wants or able to give him what he wants, i cannot feel love, i cannot let that happen to me again, i cannot be responsible for anyone elses feelings anymore,,,, what the hell is wrong with me,,,,,

2006-08-23 12:42:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am dirty blonde <3<3

2006-08-23 12:42:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 24 yrs old Indian girl. I feel sad, depressed and lonely! I was raped when i was 7 yrs old! I am unwanted child of my parents as they themselves told me, that they wanted to abort me but could not as my mom could have died, as it was cesarian section, and it was illegal to abort. They hate me and my dad used to beat me everyday and my mom used to support him, i was not allowed to socialise. My dad and mom sexually abused me and always forced me to suicide but i didnt.My boyfriend raped me with his friend in a car! I did my graduation and doing my M.B.A. Now. i am at present in Canada in Youth Exchange Programme. I really want love, and one guy from U.S.A. is coming to meet me this weekend. He wants to marry me, he knows my past, i met him on matrimonial site. he has a fiancee in India, but he wants to leave her and marry me, as he wants me to be happy!Should i marry him? I feel suicidal and cant talk about my past to anyone except on net! what if he dumps me? I LOVE God! plz help!

2006-08-23 12:40:51 · 23 answers · asked by isha s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife wont have sex with me during the day. She incists we do it at night when every one is asleep. But Im too tired at night I work an average of 16 hrs a day in terrible heat. What can I do?

2006-08-23 12:39:08 · 29 answers · asked by Not tellin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-23 12:38:29 · 12 answers · asked by newyorkjets1967 1 in Singles & Dating

we have gotten a little bit of flack for not having a wedding so that close friends, and family can attend.

2006-08-23 12:37:38 · 10 answers · asked by jbate697 1 in Weddings

I know it's more than you slept with.

2006-08-23 12:37:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, im 17 and my boyfriend is 19, we are living in Dominican Republic, the thing is that he is goint to study in Argentina, he is leaving on January, as soon as i finish my senior year, on June, im leaving to USA, i have the choise to go to Argentina or to Miami, i want to go back to Miami but i have strong feelings for him, he doesnt want to leave, but i told him that he cant stay here just because of me, he has to leave and make his dream come true. I dont want to be without him but i want to go back to Miami, there i have my friends and my ex-boyfriend that has support me a lot, i dont know what to do, pls help!!!

2006-08-23 12:36:33 · 5 answers · asked by alexandra143m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know it's a long question, but PLEASE read!!!..

my boyfriend has been drinking a lot, he pushed me a couple of days ago and i still have a bruise in my wrist but i forgave him because he was drunk.he gets really violent when he drinks and i'm a little scared.he has cheated on me, but then he comes home and says that it will never happen again. he doesn't care about anybody besides him... i know he's been having some problems at work, and i want to help him go through this, but he doesn't let me .. everybody says i should dump him, let him ruin his life by himself.. but i don't know if i can do that... what do you think i should do??

i don't wanna leave him... i love him, but i don't know if i can live like this...

2006-08-23 12:36:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 12:36:17 · 12 answers · asked by waterlily612786 1 in Singles & Dating

So I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half, i'm 16, and hes 22.. There is quite a bit of age difference, but i've been through more than anyone can imagine in my life and i had to mature really fast throught my childhood, i'm very mature for my age, and I look older than what I am. I really do love him, and he treats me better than i've ever been treated in my life... do you think the age difference is bad? please be respectful.. I really need advice

2006-08-23 12:36:12 · 7 answers · asked by fruity9945 1 in Singles & Dating

Found out my man was messing around, I left over the weekend, my pastor from church found out I was having problems so he came to talk to me at my moms, he told me that If I love my fiance then I should talk to him and let him no what my wants are and start over, now im home and hes says its over with the girl but hes not giving me attention, right now hes outside with the guys. Do I tell him how i feel or just let him be, and maybe he will come around.....

2006-08-23 12:36:12 · 2 answers · asked by Monique G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am embarased to take my clothing off in front of women because my organ is bent like a bannana, curved in such a way that it almost hooks straight towords my face. I can't get over it, is this something that can be taken care of with therapy, or surgery??

2006-08-23 12:35:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy always says he'll call me but he doesn't. he's called me one time and he's had my number for the past 3 months! he always insists on me and him hanging out, and tells me to call him when he gets off work, and when i try to call him, his voice mail comes on! is he ignoring me? will he ever call me again? i like him-what should i do?

2006-08-23 12:35:32 · 14 answers · asked by moneymakerchic 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister today spilled the beans about my boyfriends surprise for my birthday in late October. He hasn't said a word about it and he still doesn't know that I know. He is taking me to a James Blunt concert. (He doesn't like Blunt personally which makes it more of a surprise) and he planned a romantic dinner before hand. My boyfriend confided in my sister and asked for her help and she spilled it all. She said she thought I knew. Hmmmm.... Then she asked that I not say anything to him since she wasn't supposed to say anything to me in the first place. I'm not concerned about her feelings at this point and am angry that she told me. What I need to know is... What should I do? ... Tell him I know or pretend otherwise? I'm not good a lying and we are very open and honest with each other. Do you think he would be more dissappointed or hurt if he found out I knew and didn't tell him? Or would it be better if I tell him what I know? I appreciate your help. Thanks and God bless!

2006-08-23 12:33:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know for real if she likes me or is it because i'm the boss

2006-08-23 12:33:37 · 49 answers · asked by HAS 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it true sometimes white people in the workplace perceive minorities intellectually inferior to them?
I am an asian female i have had white women condescend ( talk down to me like a child or a 2nd class citizen) to me as if they were superior. I feel like slapping the s*it out of them but then i would be fired! Can any minorites relate to this? has it ever happened to you? white men are cool but white women can be such snobs (know it all.) even when they are wrong. Why are a lot of white women like this? why do they think minority women asian, black or hispanic women are inferior? I know intelligent women of all backgrounds...

just my exp.

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2006-08-23 12:33:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-23 12:32:53 · 12 answers · asked by lady_bug418 3 in Singles & Dating

If your girlfriend told you she "Loved you" then a year later says she doesn't want to settle down and wants to be with other people and still be with me or end our relationship. I've been trying to do everything for her but she wants to have sex with other men, men whom I hate, and gets mad because I make a comment. What would you do?

2006-08-23 12:32:36 · 12 answers · asked by thedailybs 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

does it really matter how a girl looks...cause I think it's dumb if guys want a girl for her looks...not what's inside. I know it sounds dumb yeah yeah, but still...mean.


For my friend

2006-08-23 12:32:24 · 18 answers · asked by The_Resa 2 in Singles & Dating

My bestfriend and I took off the day to spend together for his birthday. (We used to spend entire days with each other when we were teenagers, but now we are adults and don't have time) any ideas of things we can do for the day? also, what should i give him as a present?

2006-08-23 12:32:16 · 2 answers · asked by lilgracie 3 in Friends

2006-08-23 12:31:31 · 96 answers · asked by a b 1 in Weddings

2006-08-23 12:31:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 12:31:02 · 4 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend has been in jail for a month now.because he sale drugs we've only been together for a month and 2 weeks. i like him and he treats me right but i don't have any ideal when he's getting out help me please.what should i do.

2006-08-23 12:30:52 · 13 answers · asked by thaliyah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 12:30:34 · 14 answers · asked by babycock 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is on house arrest for the second time we have been together what sould i do...we have only been dating for a month and a half...but i already love him more than anything...i also have another small well not so small problem...i might be pregnant and it isnt his...i had sex with this guy back in may and havent had a period since so i went to the clinic today and they think i am pregant so they are gonna give me a test tomorrow...he says he wants to be with me even if i am and he cried cuz i told him i would prolly leave him cuz it wouldnt be fair to him but he still wants me...what should i do???

2006-08-23 12:30:03 · 12 answers · asked by little_angel63384 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, if a guy's flirted with you before, but then when you flirt back or try to initiate conversation. He backs off. But then he'll go back to flirting and and backing off again. Will stare into your eyes sometimes. But then won't even look your way other times. He is on the shy side. But how do I know if he's just playing mind games with me? Whenever he flirts and then backs off. I back off i mean I can't look at him or talk to him when he acts this way. But everytime I ignore him. He'll do something to get my attention again. Last time he did he acted really serious instead of laughing after he played a joke like most people would. He acted serious and only looked at me once and smiled. Still wasn't able to look at me much. I just can't figure him out maybe I never will. I wish I could read his mind. He's so hard to read. I wish he would just stop it altogether if he's not interested.

2006-08-23 12:29:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok last week my freind josh said that "i'm his freind so far" what does the so far mean??

2006-08-23 12:29:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

some women love sex, but they don't want to come off easy. So they put up a front. Why is that?

2006-08-23 12:28:19 · 14 answers · asked by nuttyb4 1 in Singles & Dating