i just want the pain to stop,, i just want to be able to look at him and not miss him so much,, i just want it all to go away, to be me again, like i never met him,, i also want the guy i have been seeing to understand that i will never be what he wants or able to give him what he wants, i cannot feel love, i cannot let that happen to me again, i cannot be responsible for anyone elses feelings anymore,,,, what the hell is wrong with me,,,,,
2006-08-23 12:42:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need not to have a boyfriend until you are over the former one! Do you both a favor and end that relationship. Deal with the pain that you feel. You can if you want to. Have no contact with this guy at all! Buy some self-help books to learn about functional relationships.
2006-08-23 12:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound trapped in your own hurt and anger that you are unwilling to face them head on. As long as you allow these feelings to control your life, your being...you will never move ahead. I feel you need medical help in resolving these issues that are holding you back. Why live a life of misery and pain the rest of your life when you can move on past these things with help and courage on your behalf. Your life will remain sad, difficult and empty inwardly if you do not do something to help yourself.
2006-08-23 12:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just going through a stage of your love life. It happens to every one. Just sit him down at a good time and tell him how you feel. He should be surely to understand. Then you and him can still be good friends.
2006-08-23 12:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lil Mamii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋