my boyfriend has been in jail for a month now.because he sale drugs we've only been together for a month and 2 weeks. i like him and he treats me right but i don't have any ideal when he's getting out help me please.what should i do.
2006-08-23 12:30:52 · 13 answers · asked by thaliyah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If I was you a would move on. You may like him now and have feelings for him but you don't want to get messed up with drugs and him being in jail all the time for what he is doing. He wont get any better either. Once there into drugs they always will be. If your looking for a great relationship then move on. This is not the way to start out in life with a partner. You need to really do whats in your heart. All we can do is tell you what we think. It is hard to move on when you start having feeling for the opposite sex but you need to sit down and really think about what you really want in life....I hope you chose to move on and find the right Mr. Right! Good Luck.
2006-08-23 12:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by lady_bug418 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would put the relationship behind you. He may be nice but he is in jail, selling drugs can put you in jail for years and that is a long time. Go and date some new people, and if when he gets out you are available, see what happens. Good luck!
2006-08-23 12:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by Karina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. There are plenty of guys who will treat you right who have legitimate jobs. If you continue to see him and he continues to sell drugs, it could eventually lead to charges brought against you even if you have done nothing wrong. What if you are in the car with him and he has a significant amount of drugs in the car and gets busted. If the drugs are under your seat, the cops will assume they are yours. Is he worth losing your freedom over?
What if he gets involved in a drug deal that goes bad and someone starts shooting while you are with him. Is he worth dying for?
2006-08-23 12:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by tmills883 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not an easy situation. My ex husband went to prison for the same thing. I stayed with him for two years. Going to visit him and writing him letters. Eventually i felt like the one in prison. I bought clothes that i could actually where to go see him. I planed my days around when he was going to call and my weekends were always going up to see him in whatever prison he was in. Eventually i had to leave him. It wasn't fair to me or the kids. We didn't do the crime so we stopped doing the time.
2006-08-23 12:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by luckygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is DON'T LET HIM GO! He obviously loves you very much and will be true to you till the end. You don't find love like this every day. If you let him go now, you may be single for the rest of your life. Is that what you want?
2006-08-23 13:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by rrbowker2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to be a loser, if he was any good at it. He would have not gotten caught.
Be very glad you didnt get thrown in the joint with him!
2006-08-23 12:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by Little Bit the Ferret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb and move on and get yourself a real man.
2006-08-23 12:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him there. If you can do the crime you can do the time. Can't he get letters in jail? write to him while he's there.
2006-08-23 12:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Annie Hightower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know,if u think u guys have future together,wait for him,go visit him,but if u like someone else meanwhile,live your life
2006-08-23 12:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by Frozen.Flame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do you f u c k i n g moron is learn ENGLISH or at least how to use spell check. You deserve each other.
2006-08-23 12:34:53 · answer #10 · answered by ilikegivingfacials 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋