If your girlfriend told you she "Loved you" then a year later says she doesn't want to settle down and wants to be with other people and still be with me or end our relationship. I've been trying to do everything for her but she wants to have sex with other men, men whom I hate, and gets mad because I make a comment. What would you do?
2006-08-23 12:32:36 · 12 answers · asked by thedailybs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell her to knock herself out, do what she wants to do, it is her body and after she loses her self respect not come crawling back. women are in a sexual revolution that will eventually bite them in the azz, just like years gone by when they where stay at home moms , didn't have to work, they wanted jobs and wanted to be part of the workforce, now they all want to stay at home, no turning back. they have bought into that vision of all men having many sexual partners at one time and they wanna be equal, women use to set the moral standards of the family unit, not any more, they basically have no morals, they have lost that place already. so cut her loose, you can contain her. let her do what she wants . it is her life and she agreed to share it with you for a time, that time is over accept it and move on. if it works for her great if not, it's not your fault.
2006-08-23 12:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no dispute between two people that can't be solved with 5 gallons of kerosene and a flare gun. No, seriously I would leave her, she's begging you to. If she doesn't want to be exclusive and you do, then your goals are not the same. My advice is to find your self respect, leave her to her life and get on with your own. There's good things waiting for you, and lots of hot babes to be dated.
2006-08-23 19:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by lifeisgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say she really didn't love you. I hate to say that to you but always remember that ACTIONS DO SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. Let her go if she wants other men whether you hate them or not. You'll be fine. Someone will come your way that will love you the way you want to be loved and you'll be thankful you were available for her.
2006-08-23 19:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let her go, why, would you put your self through this, It is so much dirt in the streets, you do not know she may pick up. Please let her get out of your life. Move on, find some one who wants to be with just you, don't you think you are worth it?
2006-08-23 19:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends if your a great person than why would she want to date other men, and if you were great to her and she can't see that then you can't keep putting up with her.
2006-08-23 19:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_lil_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no easy way to say this but shes a ho just break up with her but make sure u do it gently she sounds like one of those people who would go siko if u broke up with her
2006-08-23 19:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would break it off with her because she obviously isn't ready to be faithful to you. it might hurt, but now isn't the right time to settle down if she's clearly not ready.
hope that helps.
2006-08-23 19:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by girl. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id leave her. Youre wasting your time. And, if you ever got married to her, she'll have affairs. Move on already!
2006-08-23 19:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's crazy you should try to get over her.
2006-08-23 19:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Why would you want to be unhappy?
2006-08-23 19:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋