i am 24, and i'been with my boyfriend for 12 years. 11 years ago he cheated and got the other woman pregnant, i took him back, and we have been fine, his daughter comes to stay with us once every few weeks, she a nice girl but for an 11 year old she quite smart, she plays her mum and dad off against each other and if she don't get her way,she refuses to come over and see her dad, this hurts him, but i feel relieved, cos everytime she here, she reminds me of the past i should be over it by now, but she keeps asking why mummy and daddy aren't together, and won't acknowledge me at all, the fact is they only had a one night stand, her mum causes aggro for him and still can't accept me as his girlfriend, my partner says he understands why me and his daughter don't have much of a relationship, but i want to but i resent her for existing i can't have kids and he wants them with me this upsets me more, should i make more of an effort with his daughter as a stepmum would?
2006-08-20
04:00:44
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white_funny_girl
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Marriage & Divorce