I have divorced my husband of ten years after I found out he was having an affair. We were having problems - problems I thought could be resolved with counselling. We were not spending enough time with each other, we seem to not have enough time for each other after dealing with everyday stuff, etc. That all changed after I found out about his affair with his co-worker.
Even though I know its over and that he is a liar, cheater, deceiver it still hurts that he could walk away from our marriage and our family. He is moving on with this woman in a way I could not even begin to think about. I need time to figure out where we went wrong, how we go to the point where we stopped working on our relationship, etc. before I can even think about other relationships.
Are there any words or advice that can help me get through this and stop the hurt?
2006-08-20
04:28:12
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