I have this friend, and he is like one of my closest guy friends. I like him, but I dont want this to ruin our friendship. Wat do I do?
2006-08-20 04:44:31 · 26 answers · asked by blondest_brunette52 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how you feel.
2006-08-20 04:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see this is a common question now a days
look it is a normal tendency of girls to say no.... do not take it otherwise, but i am sUre u have a soft corner for him but something is forcing u to do this kind of act, may be looks, caste or any other excuse
but the thing is when u spend some time with someone and really discuss about each other then this situation arises
so do not be so close so that Ur friend has to say this
and remember one thing after all do not give him any false impression and if u r doing this u r really hUrting him and do not hUrt anybody it creates a bad impression. it is ur life u have to make ur own decision do not take any influence of others...small life enjoy to the fullest......set good examples for others do not waste it
hope i am able to answer ur question
regards.......
2006-08-20 06:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by prasun s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either have to work it out with him and make sure it does not ruin anything. Or keep it as friends and no more. But many times friends grow into the best lovers. So who knows, this could be your Mr. Perfect. Why pass up the chance.
2006-08-20 04:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by legguy2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i experienced the same problem sometime ago. i was in love with one of my closest frnd. i was afraid that i wud propose to her , our frndship will get ruined.
solution 1: write the following things on a cute romantic card !
" We've known each other,
For a long long time,
But I never really noticed,
All the magic in your eyes,
I've been around you,
A thousand times before,
And you've always been a friend to me,
But now I'm wanting more. "
my advice for u : Never waste an opportunity 2 say 'I love U' to someone u really like, coz it is not everyday u'll meet the person who has the magic to let u fall in love.
best of luck :-)
2006-08-20 07:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by broken_heart 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would keep being his friend, but it is ok to say. you are one of my closest friends, but i may have more feelings than that for you, how would you feel about that ? only ask if you can handle the answer though. otherwise, just wait if he has those feelings for you you will see it as time goes by.
2006-08-20 04:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by mary o 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your dilemma in this case will never comes to your rescue.
Either you have to decide by telling him that you love him sooooooooo much and marry him or stop loving him and leave him on his own. There is no via-media available for you.
(di•lem•ma (di lem‚Æ) n.1. a situation requiring a choice between equally undesirable alternatives. 2. any difficult or perplexing situation or problem)
2006-08-20 04:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't hit on him,Be clear to him on where the friendship is,and where it's going,and what you want out of it. Then stay focus,none of that :I want to sleep with you today,tomorrow no i don't stuff.But be honest with yourself first,decide do i want him or just a friend. Then do it.
2006-08-20 04:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep the friendship, good friends are hard to get, sex comes and go.
2006-08-20 04:49:32 · answer #8 · answered by kate 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go tell him how much u like him. When u need something in life u just cnnot sty put doin nuthin. Be brave march ahead!!
2006-08-20 04:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by AriS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to find out what are his feelings about you
acoordingly take the next step
2006-08-20 07:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by hellraiser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
Then never feel bad of his any bad habit, then your friendship never will be ended and also never expect from him much also.
2006-08-20 04:56:50 · answer #11 · answered by Malik 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋