I'm Single and have been for a while, coz I always date Jerks who dont care about me, But my friends seem to find the most wonderful guys who really care about them, not see them as sex object.I really get jealous of them(We're very Close) so we hang out together and I'm always the odd one out.
Is there something wrong with me, Why do I attract Jerks, and Am I being Evil by feeling Jealous of my Friends???
2006-08-20 04:39:20 · 15 answers · asked by blue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
jealousy is never ok
2006-08-20 04:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by billy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with. Some people have bad luck. My sister always seems to meet alcoholics and drug addicks. She never understood why. She use to be a drug addict and now she is a recovering addict. I always felt that's who she wanted whether she knew it or not. That would be her excuse to start using again. I have told her to stop always worrying when the right guy will come. Being single doesn't have to be a bad thing. Your friends should take time with you without there boyfriends. They should know spending too much time with them will hurt there relationship. If they are your real friends tell them how you feell and ask them to make time for you and have girl's night out. They don't have to do anything bad behind there boyfriend's back. You get to have all the fun as they sit and watch you get all the attention from the guys. who will be jealous then.
2006-08-20 04:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 08:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by merisier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! jealousy is a natural emotion. especially since your friends are in great relationships, and you are getting stuck with "jerks" just dont let the jealousy get out of control. you know like ruining your friendship with your girls. set your standards higher once they start acting like your eyes are at the same level as your chest, then that's a sign, they want something other than a lasting relationship. keep on looking, honey you'll get the right one someday,you seem like a very caring person. good luck
2006-08-20 04:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by foxtrot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not being evil. It's normal to feel jealous. Try to have your friends help you find a guy or move a lot slower with guys until you find the right one. You seem smart I think you will find a guy who is kind.
2006-08-20 04:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea jealousy is an evil thing.....people who are jealous usually have negative attitudes....and negative attitudes attract negative people....enjoy life, live it up...stop bein bitter cuz u dont have a good man...thatll make it worse for u.......a good man will come when he notices a "positive woman"...im a guy and i wont approach a woman whos the odd woman out and she has a attitude because of it....plus your friends are your friends so u should have no reason to be jealous.....that doesnt make u a great friend deep down inside......REAL TALK
2006-08-20 04:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by META-4-RIC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with you, and being jealous is a normal feeling. everyone gets jealous about something at least once in their life. if u want u can always e-mail me if u wanna talk some more
2006-08-20 04:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad news: like attracts like. If you are putting out the vibe that you are unworthy, unworthy ones are what you'll get.
Talk to a licensed therapist and find out why you choose emotionally unavailable men.
2006-08-20 04:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by Persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to take of charge of yourself what kind of level you are on this planet in your evolution than you attract same people to your personality.some how withdraw yourself from this kind company because they draining your enegy they scting like leeches sucking your blood.llove yourself put god first in your life and leave all problems to him and same time ask him for guidance in your life take some new intrest in your like the wind is blowing from other direction another words recharge your batteries.let jealousy has no place in your dropped like hot cake you deserrv better in your life.don't just yourself if you do that you become just of that.you are not evil when you spell backwards means life and hope has noplace in your life when you drop h its o.p.e open people eyes i love you and god bless you
2006-08-20 05:01:05 · answer #9 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a certain amount of jealousy is healthy and natural. But when it begins to effect your relationships with friends then its gone too far. Be happy for where they are and what they have. Maybe they can help you through one of their wonderful men to find one for yourself.
2006-08-20 04:44:56 · answer #10 · answered by legguy2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well are u a bad girl or a good girl how do u dress act talk
2006-08-20 04:47:20 · answer #11 · answered by staggermanme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋