i mean i tried soo hard to get her outta my mind.. but to no use.. its been like 8 months now.. getting back together is outta the question.. coz why should i bother too much for someone who doesnt need me.. but i still am in pain.. any suggestions?? any tried and tested methods?? and bein in another relationship is kinda difficult.. i mean i am very soft spoken guy.. not that dashing or anything.. anyways i hope to hear some answers...
PEAce
2006-08-20 04:25:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
grow up you are pathetic,,,no wonder she dumped you
2006-08-20 04:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on Dude you need to grow some nads. You need a makeover, women usually dont go for guys that are wimpy, move on and reflect on the memories positively but you need to show other women and the world that no woman is going to affect you so much.
Women dig guys that blow them off and don't call back. It drives them crazy to not know what your doing or seeing you with other women at a bar scene can make them extremely jelious and they will come over and compete against the other women.
I have tried the being nice route when I meet a girl thats a "keeper" and it doesn work they just view you as another woman and label you a freind, but if you show her shes not the only thing in town and your a semi bad boy they will come running.
I know it doesnt make sense but its just the way it is. STart working out and change your image and become more agressive and the women will flock to you.
2006-08-20 04:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go. You are making it bad by thinking about it.
Life is too short and there is no prize at the end so you better start living it because it will end soon enough and you need to live it now and not worry about the past, especially something as trivial as a past relationship.
Go stand in line somewhere and take to someone in line. It is good place to meet people.
2006-08-20 04:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by CTM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn that life is not about always getting what you want the way you want it. You are mourning over a loss. Take the time to mourn then get out there and move on.
2006-08-20 04:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient with yourself Rome was not built in a day just go on being yourself and some one special will notice you again everyone goes thru a mourning process and just let it happen
2006-08-20 04:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by wildirishrose19522000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deal with it by moving on. Nobody says it's easy, but 8 mons. man, get over it.
2006-08-20 04:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by jatz46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink alot
2006-08-20 04:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by redbankriverratt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time, time, time. And keep busy. You can't heal the wound until you stop the bleeding.
2006-08-20 04:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by lilybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get over it and move on
2006-08-20 04:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by Ice Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on.
We all have things happen, but we cannot dwell.
2006-08-20 04:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋