Family & Relationships - 20 August 2006

My best friend J has come to me with a problem, wanting MY advice...and I am stumped. One of HIS oldest friends A is getting married to B and A has been cheating on him. Cheating - plural, as in 9 times in the last year (that we know of). A has asked J not to say anything to B. A is Js friend and J doesn't really like B. In point of fact, he is a co-dependent jacka#$.

But still he is her choice. J has come to ME for advice. Tell B or not, and if so, how would it be best for all around to tell him? J swore that he wouldn't say anything, but his concience has been bothering him.

THoughts? Comments?

2006-08-20 05:07:52 · 17 answers · asked by queencyane1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You've had good sex, and bad sex - What makes it a bad experience?

2006-08-20 05:07:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 05:06:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i just moved soive been talking to a lot of boy's that are older then me and i just want them to trust me again what should i do

2006-08-20 05:06:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have met 3 times now in the last couple of months. Both of us work very hard. Although there has been contact between us regularly. Last time I saw him he attended one of my parties and had a fabulous time. He got very drunk and although held my hand, was tactile etc. and spent more time with me than others he has not asked me out again. We are seeing each other in 2 weeks anyway. He emails and or texts nearly every day but the best I have got out of him is you sound so busy with no return invite. It is true I have been busy. If he wanted to be friends surely he would at least invite me to something. Or if he wanted more surely he has to make time to see me. Very confused why any guy would spend time emailing and texting me (signing with an increasing no. of kisses but no flirtatious content) if he is not going to arrange to meet up. Perhaps i have not given it enough time although its been 2 weeks since I last saw him and we are seeing each other in another 2 weeks.

2006-08-20 05:06:32 · 11 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 05:04:30 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love this guy and yet he isn't "up to par".... I have a child and yet this 22 year boyfriend of mine is still living at home and his mom still does everything for him. He is getting ready to leave for job corps, so I guess that is a plus..... As far as that last sentence goes I already know what I need to do, but when he touches me it is like heaven and when he kissies me it is breath taking.... I do love hin but is it right to??? Should I really have to wait for him to grow up or should I move on???

2006-08-20 05:04:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my best friend who is like the little sister I never had is having boyfriend problems. She is (or was I'm not sure at this moment) going with my ex-boyfriend. I'm totally fine with it. Last night when she was at a friend's house he was there too and was cold to her the entire time. Then he tells her that he knows he's a bad boyfriend and he's trying to protect her from him. She called me this morning and told all this to me and now I want to have a little chat with him and find out what is going on with him. Should I do this and defend my friend or should I just stay on the side lines and cheer for her?

2006-08-20 05:03:20 · 7 answers · asked by ncjohn07_2000 2 in Friends

i've heard that sex for the first time for girls will hurt. why does it hurt and like how badly does it hurt?? like quick pain, long lasting, leaves u sore??

2006-08-20 05:02:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i take my new gf on our first datte should i kiss her hand when i first see her? or would tht be freaky?

2006-08-20 05:01:46 · 38 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

One of my best friend (girl) was facing problems in her job. She was so nervous.. Same time my office had vacancy & we gave her opportunity to work with us. She is pretty good in her work, but not taking any intiative. Now she realises that she missed her previous job. She says she was happy there. I am feeling very guilty, I don't know whether she is having problem with me.. was I wrong ? We were best friends and now slowly we are loosing our friendship

2006-08-20 04:59:50 · 14 answers · asked by Candid06 1 in Friends

If she babied me (bottle fed / diapered etc) I would help far more around the house and be much more attentive in all ways. How do I convince her that there are huge potential benefits for her?

2006-08-20 04:59:47 · 16 answers · asked by infantc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the boy that i like goes out with my friend!but he found out that i liked him and it was my last day of camp so befor i left he gave me a huge and a kiss on the check?wat does that mean?does it mean he likes me but its my last day of camp or its my last day and he nows i like him so he was be nice and gave me a huge and a kiss on the check as a friend and sayin good bye?

2006-08-20 04:59:42 · 17 answers · asked by alyssa 1 in Friends

2006-08-20 04:59:35 · 12 answers · asked by Brittany B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-20 04:58:59 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't see anything wrong with it personally. At fourteen, my English teacher has a black hubby and one of my best girlfriends have a white boyfriend.

But I cannot lie to you and tell you I would not be jealous when I see a successful black man marry a white woman. I suppose the question that I am asking is why?

Maybe I should ask myself the same thing. Why do I get angry? I would probably date a white woman myself if I was a black man. But why? I feel as if Ive been brainwashed to believe white is beautiful.

Why is it that the black women considered beautiful on TV are said to be mixed with some other race? "Where did you get that long hair? Black women dont have a long hair?" I use to claim I was mixed with latino, because then there was a reason why I was so pretty. Just black is not good enough.

I feel as if when I see the couple, I feel that the black man has forgotten his roots. Or else is too cocky for his own good. But maybe not. Just dont forget about us.

2006-08-20 04:58:42 · 23 answers · asked by Selly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we were talking about his family and mine. there are only two girls my age that is is me and my cousin. i said his family will never go with any of us. he said, "we might not go with one but we are going to fu*k plenty of them ."

2006-08-20 04:55:52 · 9 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1 in Friends

2006-08-20 04:54:05 · 3 answers · asked by mutt531 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile now and we love eachother very much, but, hes already had sex once and i havent.. But wev both talked about it and were not ready yet cuz we want to make it speical and memorable. so, were waiting.. But wev been having dry sex Or some people call it dry humping.. and Last night we were and he started Breathing really really hard and making noises here and there.. Is that a good thing????
&& than, i know for a girl sex the first time will hurt, but what are some things He or I can do to make it hurt less???

2006-08-20 04:52:35 · 14 answers · asked by SweetiePie909 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 04:52:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1 what age can my child decide not to go visit on a weekend if she wants to stay home. I live in Michigan.

2006-08-20 04:51:37 · 11 answers · asked by christineannmiller1977 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-20 04:51:34 · 6 answers · asked by bannana56 2 in Singles & Dating

She's going through a really hard time.And she needs prayer

2006-08-20 04:50:29 · 24 answers · asked by DiamondXxx 6 in Family

and u can even feel the emotions u felt for that person?
Mine's Korous, I can still feel the love I had for my first love.

2006-08-20 04:50:00 · 4 answers · asked by livachic2005 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 04:49:19 · 9 answers · asked by billy b 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been with my fella for 6 yrs, i work 9-5 and he does weekly shifts, the weeks he does lates i feel ive got my freedom, when he is on early's i feel i have to be at home, but it bores me

2006-08-20 04:48:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-20 04:48:09 · 9 answers · asked by jrrhoada13 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 04:47:54 · 14 answers · asked by luv2so2 3 in Singles & Dating

if yes tell me how and then email or im me pink_lady_flo@yahoo.com

2006-08-20 04:46:37 · 19 answers · asked by Jeter Girl Enough Said 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 04:46:37 · 9 answers · asked by pammi 1 in Friends