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well i just moved soive been talking to a lot of boy's that are older then me and i just want them to trust me again what should i do

2006-08-20 05:06:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

well im under age so i cant move out yet and i just moved from town 2 toen and i wanna go visit my friends but my parents won't let me because they don't trust me because ive done bad things in the past and ive stopped now but i don't no how 2 show them that i have

2006-08-20 05:20:54 · update #1

13 answers

tell them ur sorry and that u need to learn and they are the only ones who can help and u also need their trust to become a better person and grow into a reasonable, mature adult....
lol, just tell them what they think of what u did and ask them how u can fix it. they usually will tell u what, do it then they should be happy! luck.

2006-08-20 05:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by *~JeS~* 5 · 0 0

The only thing that you can do is try and send a ample amount of time with them, try and talk about the topic which they want - I mean in which they have interest, make sure you don't tell them everything that is going on around you, the more you say the more they will think about you. I am sure the trust will grow if you do this - [ ya one more thing - I would answered more prefectly if there were more details added to the question] Take Care - Live free die well !!

2006-08-20 12:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by Rage 1 · 0 0

First you must understand, trust is like a glass if broken even mended can have marks on it. But in case of parents no matter good or bad parents they all love children but children do not understand unless they have their own children.

In your case say sorry to parents and tell them your reason for talking to boys and ask them what they want from you to get their trust back.

The easiest way to get parent's trust back is do not do what they don't like or get their permission before doing anything. By doing this many people will say, "why should we ask parents" we are not child, because they are your parents. Think about mother who had carried you inside her several months and when you grown up you forgot.

My friendly advise, you can not get parents in the market if they die. So take care of them when they with us.

2006-08-20 12:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ari 7 · 0 0

Guess your living on your own. or are you home now. You can talk to alot of boys. But don't date any unless they meet your parents. This will make them feel alot better, knowing who you are with and where your going etc. Maybe you lost there trust, you have to show them you are wanting it back. Works both ways. Esp. if the boys are older. but i don't know how old you are. you should not date anyone over 18 unless they say so. Try and work together. Good Luck Pat

2006-08-20 12:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0 0

Give yourselves time to move on. Trust has to be earned. That is what my mother always told me. They will, one day, trust you again. You can say sorry all you want and they can forgive but never forget. Remember they are your parents, They have and always will be there for you and to break that trust takes a lot out of them. It is not only hard on you, it is also very hard on them to not trust you. Give it time.

2006-08-20 12:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by Dr.Mom 3 · 0 0

it will take some time,that is what you have to pay to earn their trust again meanwhile good behavior will get you back in line and remember the parents always kind and ready to forget the bad thinks of their kids !

2006-08-22 12:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by AYAD K 2 · 0 0

Tell them everything bad youve done in the past drugs,sex,alcohol, everything and say your going to be truthful to them and do be say wer ure goin even if ure goin a to a parti wiv a load of smackheads i did it, it works

2006-08-20 12:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by John D 1 · 0 0

Trust is something that's earned, not given. What did you do to break their trust in the first place? Answer that question, and you'll answer yours.

2006-08-20 12:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0 0

To be honest...well ummmm trust is earned not given...jus try to build it show them you are on the right path...it should come naturally if you are doing the right thing...Cola

2006-08-20 12:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by seXi cola 1 · 0 0

ok tell them just to trust you or you are moving to canada and never to come back.

2006-08-20 12:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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