when i take my new gf on our first datte should i kiss her hand when i first see her? or would tht be freaky?
2006-08-20 05:01:46 · 38 answers · asked by blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try the cheek. the hand thing is a little freaky on the first date to me.
2006-08-20 05:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jmkisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl. Some might think of it as a sweet gesture. Some might be a little weirded out by it. Maybe skip that, see how the date goes and give a kiss later in the evening?
2006-08-20 05:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by legguy2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very 1800's. Don't do it. Just be yourself, and let things run the course. Be polite, respectful, and most important, behave like a gentleman....ie: hold doors for her and always let her enter first, open car door for her every time you get in or out(if she doesn't get out before you get over to her door), things like that. Physical contact may or may not happen, you pretty much follow her lead on that one. Look for signs that she would like you to kiss her. If she touches you occasionally throughout the date...like your arm or shoulder or leg...whatever, then that is a good sign. Again, I must advise you to be a gentleman at all times, and don't let your raging hormones get the better of you. Good Luck!!
2006-08-20 05:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by LUCIFER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how well you pull it off. It takes a suave beast to pull off a hand kiss. If you make a wreck of it, you're likely to put a dodgy edge on the nights proceedings. I reckon go for flowers and leave the hands to Don Juan
2006-08-20 05:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by corpuscollossus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is this your first girl friend? No its sweet but don't kiss it. Unless your taking her to go ballroom dance and your in a Tucix. (SP) Maybe It would be better if you kissed her hand when you drop her off at her house. But as soon as you see her you should
hold her hand til you go to your car. Hope this helps!!
2006-08-20 05:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by Dr.DRE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work at a nursing home and the other day a gentleman kissed my hand and blew me a kiss. I never thought I would like it, I mean hello, that is old school, but it really made my day, even though he is like 60 years older than me. Go for it, it will make her day. Really sweet.
2006-08-20 05:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hand kissing is very sweet but she will think that you are trying to hard, maybe a kiss on the cheek
2006-08-20 05:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by Manera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really depends on the girl. Hand or cheeck would not freak me out. If it was done sincerely.
However, if you want to "kiss her on the lips" later in another date, etc. then I strongly recommend you "ask her" before "kissing her".
Don't assume it is "okay" to kiss the lips because you are feeling it.
Have fun on your date.
2006-08-20 05:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is sweet BUT don't do something that is a one time thing just to impress her.
If you open a car door for her, be the kind that always opens the car door (or restaurant door, etc)
She will find it refreshing to see that manners and respect still exist.
Good luck!
2006-08-20 05:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by bonjovigroupie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls find it really sweet when you kiss their hand..i say go for it. and if the nite goes really well, afterwards, maybe you should give her a kiss on the cheek, or if u think you would both feel comfortable, on the lips. :) good luck
2006-08-20 05:07:48 · answer #10 · answered by pinkismysignaturecolor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋