Ok my best friend who is like the little sister I never had is having boyfriend problems. She is (or was I'm not sure at this moment) going with my ex-boyfriend. I'm totally fine with it. Last night when she was at a friend's house he was there too and was cold to her the entire time. Then he tells her that he knows he's a bad boyfriend and he's trying to protect her from him. She called me this morning and told all this to me and now I want to have a little chat with him and find out what is going on with him. Should I do this and defend my friend or should I just stay on the side lines and cheer for her?
2006-08-20 05:03:20 · 7 answers · asked by ncjohn07_2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think anyone needs to be involved. Maybe you should just let her read the book "he is just not that into you" It sounds like he is trying to get out of the relationship. If a guy told me that, I would just tell him your right and wlk away. It might hurt for awhile, but if he wants out(which is obvious) then he will continue to treat her bad. Best case senario he will just me more straight up and tell her he wants out at some point. The faster she can let go, the better off she will be.
2006-08-20 05:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by tbhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really bad idea! Stay on the sidelines. Do what you can to comfort your friend, but stay out of the relationship. If you get involved you take the risk of losing a friend.
2006-08-20 12:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of their relationship...i know u love ur frnd...so do all u can to console her and help her recollect herself...try and suggest her ways in which she can solve her problem with her bf...maybe by talking the issue out with him clearly...or whichever way...but dont get involved in their prob directly...stay out of the contact of ur x-bf if u wish to avoid trouble and be frnds wid ur fnd *** sis forever...
2006-08-20 12:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it. Let your freind and your ex handle their own problems. she's a big girl. let her face the music:)
2006-08-20 12:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your nose out of it. You could lose both as friends.
2006-08-20 12:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U just should let her deal with it.
2006-08-20 12:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by Veronica A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really cares about him you should talk 2 him
2006-08-20 12:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by diana w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋