What exactly friendship is ?

Question

One of my best friend (girl) was facing problems in her job. She was so nervous.. Same time my office had vacancy & we gave her opportunity to work with us. She is pretty good in her work, but not taking any intiative. Now she realises that she missed her previous job. She says she was happy there. I am feeling very guilty, I don't know whether she is having problem with me.. was I wrong ? We were best friends and now slowly we are loosing our friendship

Answer 1

I think what u did is right bcoz u did it with a good intention. Since u say that u both r good friends i think u should tell her that u didn't mean to hurt her . Just tell her what u felt at that time. She will sure understand bcoz friends understand every thing .Tell her everything b4 its too late

Answer 2

Visions

Eyes can be deceiving
Seeing only what you want them to see
But visions from the heart
Are the ones l choose to see
If you look through your heart
When others come into View
You'll always see the goodness
In the ones that love you to
Many thoughts come into vision
When you see with your Mind
The present and the future
And those you left behind
If you see with your heart
In all things good or Bad
You'll find life a little easier
Even when times are Sad
So the next time that you vision
That someone face to Face
Remember to see through your Heart
And make the world a better Place

Answer 3

Friendship is a relationship where the individuals are honest with each other. A true friend does not expect anything in return. Your so called friend is using you for her motives. If you keen on her friendship talk to her honestly and make matters clear. See if it works.Otherwise there is no meaning in the relationship.

Answer 4

dude, trust me, some of us go to any extent to help our friends but they don't realise that. she had some problem in her work and you helped her, thats great. helping is not friendship, being there even after you helped would make you a true and a better friend. this is from my personal experience. don't let her go away, stay with her and help her. make sure she likes her current job as much as her previous one. ask her if she liked someone there, try to find out her problem and help her.do it now before its too late.

Answer 5

They say friends last forever but this is not true. When you get older you will find that friends will come and go and when you get really old they will either die or go away. Most pretend to be your friend as long as there is something you can do for them. Tell her adios and don't let the door hit her in the ***.

Answer 6

Friendship exactly's A ship built & meant only for friends, to sail in through the ocean of life.

Answer 7

Don't take it so personal, just give her some space and time, she did leave a job, that's not something that's so easy to get over; so space and time will tell. Let her grief a little. She'll come around. Nothing stays the same!

Gayle

Answer 8

no i dont think you did anything wrong you had done with agood intention you dint force her she was in trouble you gave her an oppurtunoity leave the choice to her whether or not continue with this job and sooner or later she would understand you and wish that you dont lose your friendship.

Answer 9

This is unsolvable psycho problem of hers.
Never mind. Keep cool. Whatever you could have done, you have done by helping her.
If she is not happy in your office, let her leave, Why do you worry?
You cannot change all the people in this world.
instead of scratching your head, mind your self.

Answer 10

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