Me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile now and we love eachother very much, but, hes already had sex once and i havent.. But wev both talked about it and were not ready yet cuz we want to make it speical and memorable. so, were waiting.. But wev been having dry sex Or some people call it dry humping.. and Last night we were and he started Breathing really really hard and making noises here and there.. Is that a good thing????
&& than, i know for a girl sex the first time will hurt, but what are some things He or I can do to make it hurt less???
2006-08-20 04:52:35 · 14 answers · asked by SweetiePie909 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you feel as strongly about him as you make it sound, and he does as well, than of course you should have sex. and yes, it is normal for him to react that way, just getting excited about you.
and yes, it does hurt the first time (ok , this coming froma guy who has never had sex with a virgin). he can put his fingers in you before, maybe on several different occasions, or his tongue.
sorry for being pretty direct but i hope this helps
2006-08-20 05:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i respect you two for wanting to wait for the right time.
and i know its going to happen some day, and yes it does hurt. what my bf done to me my first time was bite my ear when he first stuck it in. took my mind off the pain. Then just go really slow... it will stop hurting after a while
2006-08-20 05:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by sexy momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex for the first time doesn't hurt everyone. It didn't hurt me. It is different for everyone. My husband was very slow and careful with me and it didn't hurt at all.But do a lot of foreplay so that your vagina can get as wet as possible and have him enter you very slow.
2006-08-20 05:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure that there is a lot of foreplay first and that you are very wett in the right area, it will make for a better experience for both.
2006-08-20 05:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by Romie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all...you should be relaxed and comfortable...if you not..than you shouldnt continue. but otherwise...lots of foreplay with him, make sure he knows that you are ready (oral sex is good for it.) and there should only be a little discomfort..make sure he enters slowly so that you can adjust to him) and then enjoy it from there! dont forget protection!! you are not ready for children. hope this helps as you didnt say how old you were.
2006-08-20 05:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by sylonthego 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal for a guy to "make noises like that" when doing that.
and most girls feel pain the first time because they are nervous and dont get well lubricated down there. (Not wet enough)
2006-08-20 05:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to take it slow and you might want to use a lot of lubrication if the first time you are not that wet. Have fun!
2006-08-20 05:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always loosen your self up a little bit if you know what I mean. Plus you will probably enjoy that to, or you could let his fingers do the walking
2006-08-20 04:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait.
2006-08-20 04:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably best to cintinue to wait until you have all the answers and are mature and ready for it.
2006-08-20 04:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by legguy2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋